Yes. And another close to 50 percent comes from students, which will mostly be in-state kids. If you wanna split hairs on the difference between a state-levied tax and tuition and fees, feel free, but at the end of the day this is a publicly paid for institution. The same way you demand to know what’s going on with…

The secrecy was so unnecessary—all they needed to do was announce that the brand was evolving and Tennessee fans would demand never to hear about it again.

He is not offering medical advice, but relationship advice. Can you point me to where you can obtain a degree on this?

I’m glad you didn’t suggest that horny guy broach the topic of non-monogamy to his wife. He may love her and mean it 100% but nothing is more terrifying than getting knocked up and then suddenly your partner wants to go elsewhere for sex. Even the chillest and most understanding person would VERY easily get upset(and…

Get your porn off the internet like a normal person, dammit. Leave the rest of us out of it.

“Or that she’d realised her arbitrary rules about numbers of sexual partners are stupid?”

Idiot college bros can’t commit sexual assault? The scary part about the scenario the girl described is that if the dude had done it to another girl who gave in or couldn’t push him off he would already be a rapist. This guy does not deserve the benefit of the doubt.

It was a dumb question to ask.

Lmao. You realize it’s a column on the internet right.. They sent him questions and he answered. While he may not be “qualified” they asked him so he answered.

Trying to make things work, despite all the bullshit, doesn’t make someone an asshole. She wasn’t happy with being deceived, she tried to work it out anyway. He refused to learn in regards to sexual compatibility, she continued to try to work it out anyway. He comes damn close to sexually assaulting her while watching…

You’re in a public forum, giving out advice to far more people than the letter writer. You have a responsibility to call out abusive behaviour as far more than dickishness. In the past it seems like you’ve been more than willing to tell letter writers “This behavious is far worse than you think it is and is a red flag…

If you’re down to splitting hairs about whether or not it’s cool for him to have misled her, knowing that being a virgin was a dealbreaker, then you know that if he’d been up front, she wouldn’t have slept with him. Whether you think her arbitrary rules are stupid or not, they’re her rules and she’s entitled to have…

We’re getting into, “the definition of the word is is” territory here. You’re assuming quite a lot is going on by exchanging numbers. Are you now dating behind your wife’s back? Are you becoming emotionally attached? Are you just meeting for sex? You say, “it’s just sex,” but that’s the root of some affairs. Affairs…

If you don’t understand how those are not mutually exclusive actions, then perhaps you need a refresher on consentual BDSM...

How is she an asshole here? He got into the relationship under false pretenses. He doesn’t care enough to actual learn/improve/attempt to give her what she needs or wants (despite the fact that she’s been doing exactly that for him the whole time). She should have bailed on him a long time ago. He isn’t going to…

There’s a difference between a partner being dominant in bed and trying to bang when she’s not in the mood and persistently ignoring the “Not now I’m busy” that eventually becomes “FUCK OFF already!”

Desert Down Under, drop that selfish rapey wuss immediately and never, ever look back. He doesn’t deserve someone with the patience and kindness you obviously have.

While yes, I agree that one’s sexual history is nobody’s business, there is that whole “lying about it because he knew she didn’t want to be somebody’s first and wouldn’t have slept with him if she knew” part.

Being a virgin: Not a problem. Rock on.
Lying to somebody so you can get what you want regardless of their…

Not necessarily. Just b/c you label it “getting his rocks off” doesn’t mean it’s not an affair. You can trivialize it by saying that it’s just sex, but it’s an affair.

Right? I like his insistence on “I’M HAPPY WITH THE SEX I HAVE (even though it’s awful by my standards)“