That would be unpresidented!

I live in a wildly segregated area in Michigan, so I feel you on that.

It’s hard to know. When a baby is born, if you’re nursing, it’s all on the mom at first. And if the man doesn’t get paternity leave, he’s just NOT THERE for a lot of stuff at the beginning. It’s easy to fall into those roles. It’s hard to get out of them, even when both parents acknowledge the issue.

Uggggh I feel 100% the same way. We HAVE TO maintain social relationships outside the home. But when they’re like, “mommy, no bye bye!” all sad and cute . . . sigh. Little fuckers.

Heh. This is the one thing I give my husband a pass on. He’s a big, beefy dude and his fingers are the size of frickin bratwurst. Watching him try to put our daughter’s fine, straight hair into a tiny little ponytail is . . . entertaining, I guess.

Unless you STOP and do the hard work of fixing it. My husband pulled this with our daughter a few times when she was younger. I let him know very clearly that we were equal partners in this shit. He once asked me what he should pack for her lunch and I replied, “I DON’T KNOW, WHY DON’T YOU ASK HER FUCKING FATHER.”

Then you never get to stop doing it.  If you KEEP DOING IT FOR HIM you never get to stop doing it.  Just stop doing it.  See what happens.

Holy shit that’s awful.  I’m sorry.  

Totally agree.  Most of the drinkers are defensive and most of the no-longer-drinkers are projecting.  

I started doing this for myself and my daughter and it’s enormously helpful.

YUP.  It takes very little wine to make a 3am wake up call go from bad to worse.  I quit a few months ago (for now, anyway) and damn it is such an improvement!

Some people get hungover really easily.  Some people have a hard time stopping after 1 glass.  Whatever works for her.

Eh, it checks out for me. I started getting hangovers from like 2 glasses of wine, so I quit altogether a few months ago (for now, anyway). I have a toddler and I just CAN NOT DEAL when I’m hungover.

My brother in law proposed to his wife on a hike . . . AFTER he did SEVERAL fake outs of “tying his shoe” and “looking at a cool rock.”  Such an asshole.  I love him.

Jesus, the depths of grumpiness people choose to live in never ceases to amaze me.

The cheer coach in my high school MADE the girls use self-tanner.  It was a requirement to be on the team.  Blech.

But it’s fine b/c those federal workers were all Democrats!  Also all those federal workers support him!  Except no Democrats support him so . . . how can . . . *right wing brain explodes*

Trump’s Plan B:

A lot of the times really good accounts end up eventually sponsoring products.  Sometimes this will cause me to unfollow.  But if it’s only like 1 in 10 posts, and I still want to see the other 9, I can always just keep scrolling.

Lol.  Not where I work.  The people running this company are REAL OLD and it’s so easy to convince them something will market well to the youngs.