Are they using GamerGate logic? “If women want women on money, they should MAKE THEIR OWN MONEY”?

1. Fred Durst

Anthony Kiedis, RHCP.

I was just thinking that. I can just barely imagine somebody deciding to run a train with 25 guys. But at least some of the guys would have wanted to wrap it up, even if the woman didn't insist.

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I've been fascinated by sign language and Deaf culture since middle school, and this was lovely. Thanks for sharing your experiences!

If the letter were identical except the guy had slept with his fiancee's mother instead of her father, I'd say the same thing. You don't owe your partner a minute-by-minute accounting of your entire sexual history — but boning strangers you meet online (some of whom were married and not in open relationships) is…

I think the guy needs to come clean about the bisexuality, and preferably about the dad-boning too. Aside from the potential ick factor, aside from the mutual blackmail possibilities, his fiancee deserves to know. It's one thing to marry a bisexual man and another to marry a bisexual man with a recent history of…

Because there are four other people involved — the babies.

There’s a massive difference in that she has to carry the babies, which a father does not. IVF pregnancies and pregnancies with multiples already carry a lot of risks —add in that this woman is likely 15 years past the end of natural fertility and so her body really isn’t set up to do this anymore without a lot of…

So now I know Octomom isn’t just an idiot who collected children she had no way of caring for like they were beanie babies — she’s also a role model!

Well, you have your straw feminist reactions all sorted out in your head nicely and neatly, so far be it from me to argue with something you’re so sure about.

You can look it up yourself. I just checked the sex offender registry for where I live. The person who lives closest to me convicted of “carnal knowledge of a child aged 13 to 15” (that is, statutory rape) in 1993.

Agreed 100 percent. In addition to the philosophical objections you raise, I doubt any crime has ever been prevented by the sex offender registry — if someone creeps you out enough to look them up on there, probably you should just trust your instincts and stay away.

I mean, what are their options? Assuming they love their parents — and most kids do — they have to make peace with it, at least in terms of what they say in public. The only other choice would be running away.

I forgot the last one was not her first — I don’t watch her shows. But if that’s the case my WTF intensifies.

What I don’t get is why anyone would take relationship advice from somebody whose marriage lasted <3 years. Unless hers is a “what not to do” book.

I can't watch Before Midnight. I need to believe Jesse and Celine are young and in love forever and ever, and I have too many feelings about this to watch them be unhappy.

Great post, Jia. Thanks.

No, I like them too. I think a lot of the gawker v. Buzzfeed v. Reddit v. Tumblr v. Whatever other website people are reading this week is just sports team shit, basically. Everything is us v. them.