Ditto. I used to hang around the outskirts of "that" part of the crowd until, one time, I got a big foot smash to the face. After that I kept even more of a distance.... Jesus, that was like 16-17 years ago. Where has my life gone...

Seriously? Cause...

How about some rules for guys then?? Like, if I see your fucking underwear maybe?!

That is comforting. Thank you. :)

Ugh... stories like this hit me right in the feels. I wonder how many of those firstborn females to Asian parents (Korean dad here) were still treated like crap. Especially if there were sons that followed, as was in my case.

One day at a time, sweetie. One day at a time. <3

Or, possibly, "Let me hit it." That song was popular around the time I started sexing and.... eventually that did work. /shame

I've never been pregnant, but for already being self-conscious about my body I can't even imagine what a wreck I'd be after. But, honestly, you do look fabulous. I wish I had the guts to be brave and even post a pic like that! Maybe someday... I have PCOS and Bipolar Disorder, so it's really difficult to lose/keep off…

I'm VERY surprised there aren't any South Florida cities on the list. Wilton Manors (sub-city of Fort Lauderdale), where I went to high school, is like... a gay mecca. It's fabulous. And, hello, South Beach?! Le sigh... It really IS like The Birdcage.

Thank you for that! I realize I could've googled but I felt you could most likely answer and it's a nice opportunity for others to be quickly educated on the topic as well.

I love this family SO HARD. It's such a beautiful story and I only wish more families were like them... wouldn't that be a wonderful world.

I really have no idea why this amused me so much... but it did and I thank you.

Firstly, you look AWESOME. Even for a woman who didn't just have a baby you'd look amazing. Seriously. <3

Christ... either you're a total troll just being a douche or you actually think this way. Both scenarios are gross. Fucking grow up.

The fuck?! See, now THIS is what really upsets me. Not only do companies have less of a selection for people size 12+, they have a very limited selection of things for the girls with the more-than-ample bosom. When I gain weight, a lot of it goes to my boobs (no, that's not a good thing when you're already top-heavy).

Christ he looks like a wax figure. Feel free to do whatever you want to your face, dude. I will also feel free to look at you a little cockeyed.

Totally. I'm not advocating for anything other than the fact that America is absolutely a better choice in this case. Granted, most other countries would be a better choice than Sudan, though...

Noted. This is an incredibly bullshit situation from all angles, but I'm glad she's finally getting a break here. I can't even imagine... I hope she gets the hell out of there.

While I appreciate the sentiment of wanting to help... something doesn't sit right with me with regards to the SELLING of cups/lids. "Here, come feel a little safer at my bar - you just have to pay extra." Maybe it's just weird to me... lots of things are.

Jumpin Jehosafats! If HE is an American citizen, why the hell are they living in fucking Sudan? I mean, I get it, it's where your family is... but if they're going to KILL you and you're having a baby, wouldn't leaving that awful place be a good thing?