“I wanna put a gallon of my vanilla inside you...”

yeah, i’m renting an apartment in an old building. my kitchen space is tiny to begin with; there is NO place to install a dishwasher. #handwashingforlife #oruntilimove

shocking absolutely no one, right?

well, i lived just outside of Vancouver for a couple of months and i once had a guy follow me for blocks in his car (i didn’t realize at first that was why i kept seeing a car u-turn and pass me a couple of times), until he finally cut me off at a residential intersection to show me he was jacking off in his car.…

i’ve heard that from women i work with. there are a couple of them who think i’m the one with the problem for getting bothered by it.

what year were you born? i went to a small high school and in my senior year, i was in a class with 6 chris’s (3 christinas of various spellings and 3 christophers).

i was born in ‘75 and elizabeth is my middle name. maybe it was a trend roughly around that time?

it totally depends on the area. a two bedroom apartment can range from $800 (guessing what it’s like in shittier areas) to over $5000/month.

interesting. i hadn’t heard of that and i’ve looked at the CDC site, and one of my good friends is an STD prevention educator and has dealt with one of the leading experts in California. i’m not saying that because i doubt what you’re saying; that’s just the first time i’ve heard of tests that accurate.

i’m happy to tell you how i’ve approached it :) first off, i have only had to have this conversation three times, but i essentially started it the same way. also, i’ve been on quite a few dates in the time since i got diagnosed, but i didn’t bring it up unless i felt like things were going to get sexual.

that’s what happened to me!! boyfriend went down on me with some regularity and i remember at one point during our relationship, he had a cold sore, but i can’t recall how soon before/after we engaged in that sexy time activity. it was actually quite a long time until i had an outbreak and even knew i had contracted…

yep, you can get HSV1 on your genitals. i didn’t know either until i got it! if someone has a cold sore (or even before they get it), they can transmit it to your genitals via oral sex. when that type of cross transmission occurs (you can also get genital herpes, HSV2, in your mouth), it tends to result in fewer…

this has a hint of judgment, though i’m not sure if you meant it that way. you do realize most doctors won’t test you for HSV unless you are having an outbreak? and if you are not having an outbreak, it’s not uncommon to have a false negative or false positive result. so this “*properly* tested” notion that you speak…

i have it too (HSV1 in my ladyparts) and while the conversation is difficult to have, i have it very early so as to weed out people who still think we’re lepers. granted, my diagnosis was pretty recent; less than 2 years ago, so i don’t have a ton of experience with that discussion. i’m currently in a very serious…

i irrationally detest her. she’s one of the tops on that list. as much as i think she maybe genuinely cares about the plight of children in other parts of the world and all that, i still can’t stand her. haaaaaaaaaterade all over the place here.

i would have been LIVID. i’m still pissed about Maleficent.