As a minority woman, it's still important to stand up for yourself no matter the ethnicity or social class of the offender. I guess this is going to sound strange because I can't figure out how to word it without sounding a little off, but if you think of these men as husbands and fathers you'll realize that they are…

Considering my inexplicable crush on him going on 13 years now...I get it. I don't get the crush I have on her too, but I get the total acceptance/admiration/jealousy I have of what seemed to be a very innocent yet experimentally sexual relationship with lovely shock value.

I'm going to dig around Craigslist and those tiny unfinished wood furniture stores, room for creativity!

That sounds cool! Where's it from? I want something similar for our bedroom!

I had to rewatch and stare at the dogs crotch.

Meanwhile I spend hours a week convincing my boyfriend to wear the sandals his mother bought him because I think it'll help inspire his toenail maintenance.

Can I ask how you got into this position/field and what experience/knowledge it takes? I think I'm realizing I need a job that has crazy unpredictable mixed into it and that sounds too hilarious/terrifying. Genuinely interested in this, never spoken to someone in the position about it!

I actually was berated by my lime-green-mohawk and wigs-errday coworkers last week for NOT having dyed or styled hair. I would love nothing more than hot pink or dark teal hair but then I remember I don't even brush my hair daily -_-

Do you know what it is? It looks like cooked placenta :(

GIRL. He dodged every single attempt to discuss it. Like, I mentioned the sink is going to be replaced, not shoddily repaired, and he starts pointing out everything else in the house wrong like it's a joke. I said no we're replacing it, and we're telling the landlord, and we're splitting the cost (my mom is a realtor…

You're amazing! I told my SO most of this, and we've come to an agreement on what the script will look like from our perspective, so hopefully tonight we can hash out this whole thing once and for all. In the meantime I've taken advantage of a Yankee Candle fundraise sale and purchased a shit ton of scented bead jars…

Oof how I wish I had your skills. I've already said I want to discuss timeline and the state of my sanity/home, fingers crossed!

I've been saying all you're saying, but I'm more on the "he needs to leave now" side of things, since I really can't be bothered to care after a damn month! I'm truly not sure what he's sick with, something due to his weird eating habits that have destroyed his ability to digest, hopefully short term. I'm very…

I totally would too, but I'm a little particular about how my stuff is cleaned, I almost spazzed when the friend did the dishes and then put everything in the dishwasher. I just have my own way and having that disturbed gets me all itchy!

My goal is just to get my bathrooms and home back to the state of clean/not destroyed as they are now. My SO has a friend staying with us that is sick, idk with what, but is constantly shitting and vomiting and has cracked our downstairs sink and I just want to cry at the thought of cleaning it all. No cleaning has…

Wear a sports bra, so the movements aren't as harsh, and the catching won't be as bad since it's a sturdier hold. I've had mine done twice, love them, but healing is a long process and some people pierce a little shallow, so just monitor closely and follow your cleaning ritual, pierced nipples are beautiful :)

Shit, does this mean I won't find fat girl workout clothes? I was specifically going there after work for only workout clothes. MY LUCK. Ross it is.

I'm so going to have to look into this. My original endo refused to medicate me, and then stopped returning my calls. Ugh.

I can't tell a lie. My mom gave me such a weird face when I told her "online," like it wasn't even a word to her. Please, I'm the person who IMs their coworker, next cubicle over.We now text from separate toilets in the same house. It's love, y'all.

Along with this sheet question, which suspenders have almost totally resolved for me, I have a king sized bed that my king sized sheets will not totally cover. What gives? How do I solve this? Not to mention my SO insists on using the boxes (we have slats, why do we need both good sir?!) so the boxes show too. Help?…