I made a comment saying that - Tony boy there only lost sexual capital, whereas middle-aged women lose all social capital. Heck, I am only noticed by panhandlers and this dude who stands in a corner near my home selling burial plots, cause I do look like I will drop dead fairly soon.

Mothers can do literally nothing that pleases the world.

I get that and am sympathetic to that because I am a man and society tells me the same thing, however, there are literally billions (on second thought at least hundreds of millions) of men who are doing just fine, including me, without having to sexually harass their coworkers

Men are raised to believe that their boner really, really matters.

That really drives how purely this is about bullshit “modesty” culture (which is just another word for rape culture). It has nothing to do with the actual child’s body—just as you say, your daughter’s body is only considered wanton and slatternly when people realize she’s a girl. The exact same body is perfectly…

I let my 19 month old run around in just in swim bottoms because 1) she’s 19 months old, there is nothing remotely sexual about her pre-pre-pre-pubescent body 2) I ain’t got time to try an wrestle a wrigling toddler out of a wet lycra top or, god forbid a 1-piece swimsuit. Last year, I got some side-eye for this (yes,…

As we all know, the best way to protect women and their unborn children is to take away their job and leave them unemployed and unable to meet their material needs. Nothing says “we care about babies” like leaving an expectant mother unable to buy food or seek medical care. *Thumbs up*

I think you’re kind of missing the point on this particular article. The point is you had the choice. You like doing that stuff? Awesome! That’s great that you are able to live a life where you can do it, and yes, you should be able to live that life without judgment. I understand you dislike the mocking or rolled…

Related to the not-shaking-your-hand thing: I HATE when men go out of their way to open the door for you or let you off the elevator first. It’s nice to hold the door for the person behind you, but there’s no need to run ahead or wait 15 seconds just to open the door for me. It feels so patronizing. Often times, I’m…

Well, yeah, considering the fact that the baby is a baby. Babies are different than cats.

That’s fucking hilarious (and moot) since the majority of offices keep their inside temperatures at about 66 degrees, so as to accommodate the way men dress.

There is nothing that is preventing you from wearing a sundress or open-toed shoes or sleeveless outfits if you want to. Granted, it is not the norm, but I doubt there is a specific policy against it for the men. Go for it! :P

Of all of the really stupid comments in the grays that I read because I hate myself, I want to single this one out because I think it's truly a monumental achievement in tone-deafness to imagine that young black men are being more detrimentally affected by sympathetic Deadspin articles than by being MURDERED.

I'm not a woman, so I have no experience with being sexually assaulted like this

I thinks that's possible. But I don't see how we can have a conversation about that when right wingers, and white supremacists will just pervert its significance. The way police brutality seems to work these days is that it's targeted at people who live in communities where there is always a high probability that they…

It seems unfair to assume that they were accidental, or that she is now and/or always was an "unwed mother."

You know how they have crossing guards posted near schools? And bus monitors on buses? Why don't they create something similar for parks. So kids could play without parental supervision, but there would still be a person there to call 911 if one of them got hurt, and make sure no predators were approaching them.…

Except that it is her profession and she is not ashamed of it at all. Why should we instill that shame on her by saying "Oh we won't mention what you do for a living." If she were a doctor, lawyer, etc. would you say something like that? Do you recognize that telling people they should omit that is basically an…