Your cat most likely has a UTI or other health problem causing pain when he uses the litter box. When litter box = pain, kitty will go somewhere else safe and familiar smelling (IE the clothes of the humans they love.) Male cats are more prone to UTIs. Please take him to the vet and ensure he is eating wet food, not…

You should look into Primal Freeze Dried/Raw.

Spoilers much? Literally in the headline. :/

Haha thank you. And recommendations would be great! I used to have quite the online social life. I’d like to find some niches for myself but it just seems so overwhelming sometimes. (:

Yeah, it’s hard to find a balance between smaller communities (which usually turn into cliquey echo chambers) and massive communities that are pure mob rule. I have pretty much just given up to be honest, haha.

Agree 100%. Having personally experienced this, it completely destroyed my ability to trust people, romantic partners in particular. It never quite stops hurting to realize that for x amount of time - years in my case - your entire life was a fabrication by someone else. That all the little things you shared that made…

Jezebel is generally a lot more ‘fun feminist’ than anything else. I come here mostly for the commenting community rather than the authors. After the Hairpin (and The Awl) died I’ve been trying to find a replacement but no luck yet.

It’s pretty fucked up. Like.... besides betraying someone you supposedly love and trust, if you do still have sex with them, I highly doubt they would consent to said sex if they knew you were cheating on them. Taking away someone’s ability to consent to sex on their own terms? Oh yeah, that’s rape... WTF.

Honestly, I’m pretty picky about who to tell in my family. My sister has an ED so that’s a no-brainer, same with mom. But EDs are highly misunderstood and stigmatized so I don’t talk about it much unless I’m close to someone or get the impression that they will understand it. I’m fairly open about it at this point, I…

As someone who lives with an eating disorder/disordered eating behaviors and has been through therapy for it: