I guess thats where we disagree, because i dont see anything “wrong” with what i described. Agree to disagree i guess! Have a nice day!

Its never ideal, it's divorce, but I'd say no one should feel they need to not date or get out there at all for multiple years after a relationship has ended, just because the legal aspects are taking that long.

After putting up with an emotionally abusive relationship for 8 years my bullshit tolerance is surprisingly low :-)

So we are living in separate homes, living separate lives, but for upwards of 2.5 years I'm supposed to remain celibate? Fuck you, pal.

Yeah, the being afraid of being alone thing seems to be a HUGE factor. I would be sad if my marriage ended for some reason, but I don’t think I’d be in a huge rush to replace it. I really enjoyed being single. Love my husband to bits but we’d be lying liars who lie if either one of us said there weren’t times we miss…

a colleague of mine is going through his FOURTH divorce. another one has 5 kids by 3 wives, and he’s not even 45 yet. the national head of our department is on his third, and doesn’t really hide his proclivity of hanging out with prostitutes.

What a gorgeous baby you have!

Oh my god that is so sweet! I love when cats act like dogs and vice versa! His face and eyes are too cute to resist! And research retiree? Was he used for animal research? POOR guy! You are wonderful for helping him out

Meet my research-retiree, Syrio:

Also I would love to see pictures of anyone else's beautiful adopted best friends! Bring them on!!!

Using this article to once again spread one of my favorite messages PLEASE ADOPT!

My dream is to drown in a sea of Great Danes.

It think it’s pretty brilliant. When I was visiting Germany, our “king” size bed was just 2 twin beds pushed together. I loved it so much, because my husband could toss and turn all he wanted and my side stayed completely still. Plus the divot in the middle meant he had to stay on his own side.

Sorry your heart is too cold and dead to appreciate the cuteness of kitties’ jelly bean toes.

I'm sorry you live with so little joy.