I felt like she tried at multiple points to steer the conversation AWAY from her sexuality, most obviously at the point I quoted here, but your follow up questions were about how 1) losing her hair affects her appearance and how that plays into her "line of work" and then 2) outbursts of "a sexual nature"

I want to tell you more about the things that changed for me aside from the sexuality.

You're getting a lot of hate and snark here despite your reasoned responses, so just chiming in to say I get where you're coming from. I'm not as absolutist in my feelings (that is, I don't think men can never be feminists) but it makes me uncomfortable when men claim the title because like you said, it feels like…

He seems like a good person, but for the last time, men cannot be feminists. Allies for sure, but feminism is a women's movement; you don't get to just claim the label because it's suddenly trendy and you want in.