shouting profanities and staring down my now husband who impregnated me and got me in that situation.

We'll tell my husband it's definitely a big dick problem ;P

Seconding the softcup. Flip it??? I've never had that happen. Wonder if that's a...errr...big dick problem? I would like to experiment with this - do I have any volunteers? ;-)

Since someone called my first softcup comment a PSA I'll add this here:

I'm looking into FAM/NFP myself, and even if you don't want to be on the pill, it's good to know when you should really be extra careful with your condoms/diaphragms/softcups.