I'm completely serious. I realize its the same guy. But fat Andy Dwyer wouldn't be cast in the Guardians of the Galaxy movie and if he gains that weight back he won't be in very many movies going forward.

That's always possible because it's the internet, but in my experience, awful women do exist. Normal people accept that and do not view them as representatives of their entire gender

As they old saying goes, "I always tell a guy I'm Bi on the first date. I let him figure out the Polar on his own!"

Whatever happened to letting people find out you're crazy the old-fashioned way?

"injected directly into the vas deferens"

Pills are hard for men, because our hormones and sperm-production work totally differently. All seriously considered versions of male contraception involve "clogging the pipes".

Just the opposite. Because sperm are being made constantly, it's relatively hard to shut down production to safe (no pregnancy) levels without causing significant side effects.

Don't know if it's exactly fair to say that we have no male birth control because it is not profitable. I think it would be plenty profitable. The problem is it's really hard. With women, you "just" have to stop the release (or implantation or fertilization) of 1 egg a month. With men, you have to stop the production…

Based on my limited data, I would say the percentage is too low. I've known six women well enough for them to tell me about such an experience from their past, and five of them had been raped before. I'm kind of a dinosaur so grain of salt, but:

It's not what's been reported (I assume you meant to the cops), it's what they answered on an anonymous survey — it's probably a much more accurate reflection of the true numbers than, say, what they cull from police reports. Still probably underestimated but it's an important finding because it theoretically…

I don't want to turn this into a "what about the menz"-fest, but to add on what you said about it being higher, it's probably higher for the men too, due to the even greater stigma of being a male rape victim. A lot of men who get raped can't talk about it with anybody. (Though I do agree that it's a much bigger…

What? OK, I date women, but I've done my share of high maintenance. Fuck that. Never again. The drama is not worth the high times.

Same principle as when men are raped — they become a joke or an embarrassment for being unable to prevent their own violation.

so why is no one making posts about the men who were affected by this? justin verlander is getting made fun of, unlike the female celebrities, and i'm sure scott speedman isn't thrilled there are photos of him with an ex girlfriend out. Does the blogosphere's empathy only go one way?

I agree that this is a horrible violation of privacy and Reddit is hypocritical for not treating this just like any other privacy violation, but is it possible that there might be a few cracks in the soap box that the Gawker blogs are collectively getting on here?

Again, would you be asking all these 'prove it' questions if the abused was a she? Maybe this is why male victims of domestic violence underreport it!!!!??!

He and my husband have known each other since grade school. They lived together as young men. He comes from a loving family and has always displayed respect and love for his relatives, friends, etc. We may be able to fault him for having "white knight syndrome," but that's about it.

Over the last year and a half, my husband's BFF has divulged a lot of information about his abusive spouse. "Matt" is routinely verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abused by "Jennifer." She comes from a long family history of domestic and child abusers. The two of them have three small children. Jennifer has…

Teenage girls "in love" are insane. Try and separate them from their "Soul Mate" and they'll go nuts trying to stay with him because he's "misunderstood" and her parents are unfair and judgmental and just "trying to ruin her life". The harder the family tries to separate them the more obstinate the girl will be to…

ha so it's totally ok to steal from rich people oh I guess they're guys so it's ok