Men and women can certainly be equally shallow. But the whole "you gotta spend 5K to get a girl" bit is caling women shallow in order to sell stuff to guys. It's just messed up all around.

It's more like an ad campaign preying on guy's insecurities.

Yep. There are also plenty of posts here about larger women complaining that the guy they want, who is their friend, won't date them, but it's his fault because he must just be worried about what his friends thinkg ratehr than...oh...just not wanting to date her.

Now that is awesome.

Well, the first one is true, the last, I don't even know who that is.

Meh, everyone involved is being stupid. The shirt is clearly a problem, even if in jest, because it still suggests ordering consent. These guys should realize that. At the same time, the complaint that—how dare guys go and take up this issue themselves is fucked up because it suggests only guys need to seek consent,…

How else would God know where to send the epiphanies? Do you know how embarrassing it is for god to send that shit to the wrong address????

Didn't you see, he's Christian! He has a RIGHT to personal information. To prey on pray for them. God wills it!

One time? Got plenty more than that.

Well played.

Well, an opt-in system is the only way to get around privacy issues. And I'm sure there are plenty of guys that are full of themselves and want to be judged by a bunch of super judgemental women. But it's still women that are judging men, so the site is still absolutely for judgey women.

Thinking about this further, then why even have a query like this at all? I mean, I already think this is a horrible idea that will only yield craptastic questions from scummy dudes and god-awful answers from crappy women (who else would even use a site like this?).

How so? It's still an app in which women rate dudes and rag on their exes, deserving or no.

Since these are anonymous I'm inclined to give a pass on spelling. But maybe it's just because I don't really edit when I'm posting anonymously. I know how to spell, but I'm not publishing under my name so I don't give a damn about typos.

I honestly don't know why so many dudes get hung up over how many partners their SOs have had. That really is some regressive mysoginistic BS.

That's funny, because that's the same complaint I have when women say listen to them about advice picking up women. I often find it unhelpful because the advice they give is what works for them specifically. Well, that's nice, but I'm not trying to pick YOU up, I'm trying to show interest in OTHER women. It would seem…

This is the definition of mysoginy:"hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women."

Sooo, is there a basic bitch Halloween costume kit?

Oh, it cracks me up when middle class Manhattanite white women think they need to try to educate me, a POC from Inglewood, CA, on the notion of priviledge.

Doesn't look like I ignored your point I all. You keep saying you know exactly what he's up to imposing your own assumptions on him. I keep saying, we don't actually know and shouldn't assume all he wants is sex because he's a dude.