You lack self-awareness.

Aaaand now that you're just barreling through the thread, whining defensively at commenters who were trying to engage you in good faith,

I know right? None of these guys can put themselves in the position of a female who deals with sexual rejection. Know why? because we suck it up and deal with a modicum of self-respect, and they can't.

Maybe I did misinterpret, but I don't think that your hurt or rejection is any more than that of women who are frustrated in the same way.

Which movie was this in? I saw all the Connery Bonds, and I really feel like I would've remembered this.

Yeah, he's a gentleman, but he's also funny, intelligent, and passionate about multiple interests.

Your problem is with those other men, the ones who harass us. You really want to be "one of the good ones"? Call that cr*p out the next time you see one of them pull it.

If you were smart, you'd take my opinion on board because I'm pretty successful at relationships and I kinda have an insight into how a lot of women think, seeing as I am one.

I'm pretty sure you misunderstood me. I wasn't saying I should be upset because they owe me something, what I was saying was that people here use "they don't owe you anything" as a reason that guys like me shouldn't be hurt or surprised by rejection. I never said (or thought) they owed me anything, that was just an…

The part where I'm getting confused about your story is that it doesn't seem like you've fallen for a close friend. It seems like you really want a girlfriend/companionship and are befriending women on that premise. Women are smart enough to pick up on this. I've been on the receiving end of this and it's a sure-fire…

I'm sorry I implied that you felt "owed" - when I said "women don't owe you a chance" I meant "general you", not you personally.

Thisss. A lot of guys won't take "no" for an answer. They think you're just playing hard to get, or that if they keep pushing we'll eventually find their persistence sexy and say yes.

I don't think you're evil, I think you are utterly fucking pathetic.

But stop thinking they're not attracted to you because you're nice; that's creepy and gross.

I don't buy this, mainly because I have never dated assholes or "bad boys" and neither have the vast majority of my friends.

I'm being purposely harsh because you need a giant kick in the ass.

I got news for you, dude. They are not refusing to date you because you're "too nice."

Can we actually just stop using that childish term? It's called, friendship, not "friendzone". (Isn't friendzone what they called the crusty disease infested jungle-gyms they used to have at McDonald's?)

Women do not "automatically friend zone" someone for being nice and deliberately choose to date assholes unless they are carrying some very heavy psychological baggage.

I'm sorry that you feel lonely, but women don't owe you a chance, no matter how much you think they should.