A lot of abused people think this because they were also abused by their parents, whether it’s emotional/physical abuse or neglect. They had to make the best of things with their parents, so they become adults whose every instinct is to “fix it”. Combine that with low self-esteem and partners who tell them they’re…

So he spoke about himself in the third person?! That is simultaneously creepy and not at all surprising.

I felt like this is my partner, I chose this, I’m going to make it work.

You win today.

I Consider Myself to Be a Free-Ass Motherfucker

Yaaaaaassss I am loving this. Not talented enough for a pun but THERES’ ALWAYS MONEY IN THE BANANA STAND🍌

Ugh. The barely concealed RAGE that douche in the glasses shows because they are not kowtowing to his demands that they leave disgusts me. It displays the levels of racism and misogyny inherent in him to feel that level of entitlement and rage because these women won’t leave simply because he has decided he doesn’t…

Wishing that I could give a bonus star for the walk like an Egyptian reference.

And then burn it the fuck down in front of them.

for making them feel uncomfortable here at Grandview, that is not our intention in any way,”

Dollars to donuts, this didn’t end in police action because one of the three women involved is an attorney and head of her local NAACP chapter.

they only err on the “side of caution” when black people are involved which typically leads to an unnecessary arrest or worse. the root has a very good article on all of the times the white dude who murdered four people at waffle house was able to interact with the police with nothing more than a slap on the wrist.…

This:

The Root had an excellent article about why white people are always calling the cops on us or threatening to call the cops on us. In their eyes, we’re always criminals or about to do something criminal. What’s the crime here? Trespassing? As paying members, they’re allowed to be there. I really hope people start to…

Sue, Sue, SUE, SUE, SUE these motherfuckers. I want those women to OWN that golf club.

The problem, I’m guessing, is that the police want to err on the side of caution in case something goes wrong, and they were a no show. It’s not fair, but it’s the right thing to do. If some idiot clutches his diamond encrusted kravat and calls 911 over black people golfing, there’s no telling what other lengths he’d…

Whenever someone makes an offensive joke or comment to me, I always play dumb and make him explain it to me so he can get real explicit about his bigotry.