Yo, my relationship with violence and aggression is complicated, personal, and valid. Whatever you just said was entirely for yourself and not me, and not at all appreciated.

she spoke to CNN. i want to throttle her. no, I don’t. ok yes I do, I just don’t like that I do.

Emotional babies, my dear. Not actual babies, like Ariana Grande.

you should really pay attention to the context in the thread if you’re going to join the discussion.

She actually Co-Sponsored all of those 16 pieces of legislation, and all of them became law. I know how to use search filters! ^_^ maybe you should learn.

Yup! for decades and decades they resisted anything resembling raising the minimum wage, choosing instead to “help business”. And now we have businesses making billions of dollars in profits and paying no taxes *during the pandemic*. meanwhile, we have data now coming out proving that “trickle down” is the farce we…

You do realize she was just re-elected as well...

Here ya go. Also, she just won her re-election campaign.

most definitely.

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I definitely recommend family therapy too especially when it’s this severe, but there’s no guarantee it’s going to save the relationship and if a spouse isn’t willing to even try counseling, unfortunately we can’t force them. I went through that. We couldn’t work it out, and I left (and am BETTER for it).

Our culture actively discourages men away from processing their own shit. More than that, it actively encourages them to do so, and while their partners end up taking the brunt of that bullshit, others around them do too. The concept of Impact > Intention is absolutely foreign in toxic masculinity and among a lot of…

Hey Stuck: if you’re not already in therapy, it would be a good idea to look into it. I say that in kindness...the support is invaluable, especially in situations like yours. Good luck.

it’s as if you haven’t been paying attention at all. What makes you think AOC is like every other weak ass Neolib has been for decades, when she’s been doing exactly the opposite? And why do you think she would roll over and be cowed? She hasn’t yet, in four years. And only by NOT playing to this old guard’s stupid…

This is a weird comment. What position do you think the country and politics is in right now, exactly? Why do you think she’s saying these things? And what does her saying this have to do with “balls”, metaphorical or not?

well butter my biscuits. she’s either learning or familiar.

anyone whose perspective on a story about relationship abuse is “Why didn’t they Google this person ahead of time” is clearly an abuser themselves. look at you trying to make excuses for abusive behavior. look at you trying to cover up the shit that you've done in your own life and excuse it.

I have really never seen anything more disturbing than your trying to silence people based on the fact that they did not “do their research” before dating someone. I have never heard more of a dysfunctional excuse for behavior than this. yeah I’m sorry, this is dysfunctional behavior and the person responsible for it…

I’m sorry, now we’re supposed to Google search people we date and try to determine from that information whether they’re abusers or not? And if we don’t figure it out, It means we’re responsible for their abusive behavior because we couldn’t figure it out beforehand?

This IS victim-blaming. You’re trying to blame her for not seeing what *you* saw and knowing what *you* know and assume everyone living around the world knows.

Read this thoroughly and examine it for your own behaviors please.