God, why is this so spot on?

YES YES YES YES YES. As if women are the problem here.

Rape culture is grounded in an ignorance of and indifference to issues of consent, and sex workers play a huge role in teaching men about consent and sexual boundaries. Sex workers are making the choice to use their bodies in a transactional way, which includes prescribing with articulated precision the work in which…

Aw, Hugfart. Do you need a hugfart?

Guys, do yourselves a favor and follow Madeline Marlowe (@MaitresseM), Lorelei Lee (@MissLoreleiLee), Jiz Lee (@jizlee) and anyone they retweet on Twitter. It will improve your lives, guaranteed.

See also: Stephen Collins, 7th Heaven.

Can the next investigation be about DeRay’s close friendship with Katy Perry? I don’t understand how it began, and how it persists. I need so much more information.

I can’t see them either.

It’s what I like to call the “cost of doing business.”

The point, the whole point, is that we don’t get to tell women what they can and can’t do with their bodies.

For me, the little nugget of judgment I feel towards all of them for anything child-related is rooted in my own bitter jealousy. It’s the bitter jealousy of “you didn’t have to change your life AT ALL.”

Same. I looked at that clip and all I could think was she’s gotta have some giant pad undies somewhere right off camera.

Swear to god, those animal ear hoods and hats are 92% of the reason to have children.

You can! Since sexual harassment is often more about power, toxic masculinity, and compulsory heterosexuality than actual sex, you 100% can!

This is a beautiful piece, Anna. Thank you.

This is giving me shades of “10 Classics in 10 Minutes” from the 80s.

Good lord, I hear you. I’m bi/pan, and semi-femme, and married to a cis/het bear of a man. I basically look like every straight mom at preschool. I’m generally out to my family, though because of my living circumstances, those who weren’t that psyched about it have, I believe, either chosen to ignore it, forget it,…

I’ll give you my not-mature 2 cents. Completely disappearing is the only power you have in this situation, and I would do it immediately. Warn him, don’t warn him, who cares. But if you do this on his timeline according to his wishes based on his life choices, then it’s all about him, and you will still pine. I’m…

ain’t nobody banging steven miller.

Slightly OT, but yo. Everyone in this world should have a friend who gets down for them like Adam Rippon gets down for Aliona Savchenko.