Eh. My primary partner lives in Rome six to seven months of the year. I’m in the South Of France. It’s been working for 14 years. Make the most of your time together and get really into “missing you sex” when you do hook up.

I’m so sorry. I’ve been through it, and going through it, with my husband. It’s just a tough place to be. Support for yourself, and lots of self care to help get through. There are lots of books on living with depressed people, it’s really really hard and hopefully you will find something helpful, for both of you.…

So, first of all: CONGRATULATIONS! Heck yes you are an expert in your field! Rock on!

My husband’s depression is unbearable.

QuiQue had his first photo with Santa and didn’t claw his beard off. He even knew how to pose - notice the bromance paw.

One of my closest friends is a military spouse, and her favorite tip for tolerating deployment is to go for massages regularly. You become starved for touch when your significant other is away for long periods, and it really messes with your head. A bit of innocent physical contact with someone is a big help.

Guys.

Why does your husband prioritize playing happy family over your feelings at the holidays? Why are you less important than they are?

I don’t think you’re under any obligation to see them. They seem to be miserable people, who cares if they don’t like you for it?

For me, when I have a crush on someone, the butterflies get worse/I get more nervous when I’m physically around them. I also have a tendency to blush when I’m talking to them. The word “twitterpated” is actually a good one to describe this.

I feel really terrible about saying any of this, but jesus fucking christ I just can’t anymore: I really dislike my husband’s family. They’re basically stupid white trash and I hate every second I have to spend time with them. Everything they talk about makes me cringe and uncomfortable, each parent has had like, 6…

I’ve happily been in a multinational LD relationship for a little over a year. Neither of us are in a hurry to make any big moves, so it’s working well. We talk every day and see each other when we can. I kind of like being alone so this is working for me. All the fun of a relationship but none of the living together…

Jezzies, I need some impartial advice.

A) Ewwwwwww.

My husband and I are a success story - LD for almost 4 years, now happily married. But I definitely, definitely needed an end in sight (and even with that, the last year was unbearable at times).

If you don’t want to break up, then my advice is don’t. May is a long time from now and a lot could change by then, especially since it doesn’t sound like either of your situations are set in stone at the moment.

My husband and I have been long distance since August (I moved for school). It isn’t ideal, but it hasn’t been as hard as I was expecting. The hardest part for both of us was adjusting to having to take care of everything again since we’ve had someone to share life duties with.

No happy advice from me I’m afraid.

Ladies!!! Please help me get the word out on this. My friend tweeted at Michael Rapaport and the following was his response.

Hi Jezzies, I finally had my citizenship interview and it went really well so great week! What happened in your world? Also shout out to Kara who was on Bitch Sesh, she rocked!