I really hope you challenge that objectifying talk.

Talking about pussies, ass, and tits =/= talking about women.

I feel very similar about Beyonce’s feminism. I don’t identify with her confusing, anemic messages, and yet I fully support how she approaches honesty and truth in her own life.  I’m actually a huge fan and respect her work ethic. I identify as a Black woman with a more nuanced version of feminism and I have my own…

“Still, her type of feminism is not mine, as it is the kind that, at the same time, gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men. I think men are lovely, but I don’t think that women should relate everything they do to men: did he hurt me, do I forgive him, did he put a ring on my finger? We women are so…

Put a group of men together and they will not talk about women at all, they will just talk about their own stuff.

Well, we do talk about women a lot, but only rarely is it about “real” things. Like relationships, marriage, etc. Mostly it is objectifying talk. Sometimes though, when we are one on one with someone we are close to then we might open up about what is going on in our relationships or admit that things aren’t going…

I heard Adichie speak at a small event about 18 months ago. You know that fear that an author your love with let you down in person?

i really like her and think this is a good response. critical but not harsh

Trump realllllly sucks. My dad also thinks Trump sucks, but told me on the phone tonight that he thinks ‘all this talk about Trump’s comments about women’ is just ‘distracting us from the real issues.’ I began to (calmly) explain that, as a woman, I think it’s important that we’re paying attention to the…

My boyfriend of one year (who was my friend for longer) broke up with me. Thought he was my forever person maybe. This is urgent: send kittens and puppies and all manner of squee because I’m wrecked.

I have solid evidence that chicks love the pussy

I’ve never read this story, but my god. That is hilarious!!!

Oh Lord, that reminds me of a past pissing contest where a woman was using an outhouse type bathroom in remotest Asia and a PIG SNIFFED HER ASS. It was just hanging out in the poo trench waiting for more shits!

The weirdest thing I ever saw in a bathroom happened to me. I was dating my new boyfriend, and he asked me to his Christmas party, which was held in a dive bar near Chinatown since the employees were paying for it. Shortly after we arrived, I excused myself  to use the bathroom. Having done so, I wanted a lipstick…

What the everloving fuck. Why did your store continue serving them?? You should have called the cops the minute they walked in and tried to order their fraps.

WHAT

I was at JFK airport peeing in a stall when a Middle-Eastern woman in a burka swung open the faulty door. She saw me and screamed like she had just seen Manson in my vagina. When I came out to wash my hands she glanced in my direction, eyebrows furrowed, utterly scarred by what she had witnessed. Trying to calm the…

Not disturbing, just odd.

I don’t know if this really counts as “public” but when I was in the Navy, the aircraft carrier I was on made a port call in Karachi, Pakistan. We had been out to see for something like 45 days, and everyone was a bit stir crazy. On the way in, as they usually do, the public relations department made repeated…