continue posting miss upper middle class white women

its 100 % fact

Dude, NOOO! You’re going to get a litany of counter examples and admonishments. This isn’t a conversation, it’s a lecture. Sense the room!

That ‘period’ did the trick. I’ve got no more questions.

Stop White Knighting ‘Tony’. It’s not going to get you laid.

you seem a bit angry and irrational. you have no idea what men experience.

Men are great at emotional work, especially as boys, and there’s no denying that old patriarchal voices work hard to dissuade our innate capacity to shoulder said emotional work. But what I never understand is why its never thought that perhaps how said innate capacity is treated by the opposite sex during adolescence…

We’re both men! Every drawer is a junk drawer!

Try the junk drawer in the kitchen ;)

Count me as one of the men who’s never heard of this concept until today. I always viewed women’s emotional intelligence as kind of a curse.

I’m wondering if the girls in the picture are going to start making out.

Then why are the harshest critics of women I hear talking are other women? The mommy brigades who judge other mothers irl and online. The female coworkers cutting each other down.

I was responding to a comment saying how men lead carefree lives, not the article.

It’s an easy lie to believe if you see men as immoral, savage brutes and empty emotionless husks of human beings.

I am so tired of how it’s still seen as a weakness and a lack of masculinity to show emotion. Our gender roles are still so fucked up, and regardless of which gender has it “the worst,” boys are definitely conditioned to be a certain way and fit into a specific mold that is unhealthy. I really wish we could let men…

“Emotional expectations for men are created by men.”

YEAH OKAY>

The responses to your comment speak volumes. Even when a man is a victim, he is responsible for his own victimhood. Apparently, all men are responsible for gender expectations, but no women are.

I do more of the emotional work with my daughter—the sorting through feelings, the talking about them, the emotional literacy that I think is a huge part of being a good person.

“Innate male reactions”... I cannot believe how proud some men are of their patriarchal shackles.