She doesn’t care to learn how to do those things, like I don’t really care where the cheese grater goes. And why are most women like that? Or at least most all of them I know?

I give a fuck about other things my wife doesn’t. Like fixing her computer when it goes down, or wiring in the new outlet she wants, or unclogging the sink drain. She’s not that concerned about me asking where the damned cheese grater goes.

The system enforced by both sexes does in fact cause problems for everyone. A patriarchy it isn’t, especially on this topic.

That pile ‘o crap must be satire, right?

Too true. Men can fight and walk away forgetting about it. Women always have that emotional knife ready to sink in the back again.

The comments on this story crack me up. Your man is the same person you dated and married. Why complain about how he is NOW?

I do the same thing. Not with every dish or utensil, just the ones not used much. She knows where she wants it, I don’t give a fuck, so I ask.

You can tell it’s a curse by reading the comments.

They both thought they could “change” the other. Women don’t realize that much of what they see as hot in a date is going to be a pain as a partner.

Yep. You’ll get a control freak, every time.

Articles like this make me feel lucky I’ve never met or tried to date most of the commentators. Women play emotional games, men are taught to stuff emotions, and after a few years the woman wonder why her emotional needs are not met thanks to the man going numb.

They’re old when your wife forgets her tampon and bleeds all over them, not something gay men need worry about.

Why? My wife has things just so in the kitchen, and there are things we hardly ever use. Would you prefer something put away where you never find it again?

So do you want it to change, or just to whine about it?

This is the time and place, given the comment by the OP. Take a seat, as they say.

When are a woman’s emotions not catered to?

Nope. Not even close. Women still provide the bulk of child care, both at home at in primary schools.

To bad that isn’t what feminism is about.

You say this because you know we are expected to stuff it down no matter what, to suck it up, to be a man. And then you want to act surprised when that sticks?

They’re going to regret letting in all these unvetted refugees.