I didn't mean manliness, I meant sanity. It's only been my personal experience and I know my view probably seems extreme but there is a subgroup of misogynistic "men" who are WAY too into their dogs and everything about living life in the wolf pack. It's about how most dogs look for a leader and will accept corrective…

Late 20s and trying to keep the GF under 3 partners? Even worse than I thought.

Yeah, in my late teens/early 20s I was on both sides of that too! Ugh!

"Heyyy, I've been eatin' da chicken Fancy Feast 'cause you said da salmon smelled bad, but now ya sayin' maybe ya went outside durin' ya last few heats? What da hell, baby doll, I go through all dis trouble and now ya admit you been lyin' all da time and ain't exactly been a kitten?"

I get that, "rude" implies an intention a cat doesn't give a fuck enough to infer. Clearly, Bobo meant "disrespected":

Based on this guy's other 5 complaints I'm probably reading far too much into this, but as animal person, I'm always sensitive to how new people treat my pets and so, to me, "rude" would mean pushing it out of the way or something that betrays an unkind or intolerant streak in the person. Now, in this guy's case, WTF…

I wasn't at all saying that people should not train their pets to be respectful of guests. I meant that I scrutinize how people interact with my pets: it gives me extra insight into what they're like. I agree it's really annoying to be mauled by an animal, but that's the person's fault most of the time, and if a…

"Frigid"? You're Bobo aren't you! Well, sorry about your cat's feelings though.

I think he at least thought they were a couple, who knows how seriously she took the relationship? If she's under a certain age and didn't adjust it on Facebook that's a major clue. I think he started figuring it out and created reasons as to why he had to reject her even though she had already rejected him though…

I SO hate how this fool uses his CAT to hide his insecurity and quite frankly what sounds like some woman-hating moraes (a female can't swear? you expect your GF to be "ladylike"? you've known her 7 weeks and she has to divulge her partner number to you?). This guy's expectations are abnormal. I hope that cat text-ups…

not true when it comes to fucked up boys: IME, *a lot* of them are way into dogs because of their control issues (swearing, GF having had more than 3 partners). i guess, just in general, one can learn a lot very quickly about someone by how they treat their pet and what their motivation for having that pet seems to…

THAT was a great episode (as were just about all) though it's sad how it's still true that some guys are intimidated and will slut shame if the woman has had more partners.

Yeah, I have a hunch this guy thought their relationship was a lot more than she did. Like maybe he HAD to text this to her because she wasn't returning calls, e-mails, acknowledging on Facebook — that sort of stuff?

You don't have a pet, do you?

This guy's self-esteem is sadly low: he needs to know that all the reason one needs to break up is #3 and, at least in my case, my cats have always done the text-ups for me, they're like, "Don't even BOTHER with this fool, we're on it now."

Yes AND those ads telling 50 and 60-something year old women that if their vaginas don't function they way they did at say, 25, they've gotta get an Rx for that topical stuff ASAP and then they'll be giddily running around that weird sheet-infested mansion used in all those Celine Dion/Meatloaf/Madonna/Toni Braxton…

I was just going to make a similar comment. Ages and ages I did catalog work, which simply meant I fit the correct measurements, or that my proportions were the right ratio (limbs, torso, face, head, neck). I met some truly visually stunning people and others who were just the right ratios (there were groups of…

Has there ever previously been a time when we've had so much leisure time, or led lifestyles where we sit around, worry and compare ourselves? Also, before the Internet, TV and mass publishing men (and women) didn't have a buffet of images from which to compare.

Also, you're friend has totally lived 'Voices Carry':

Something is up with a person who knowingly signs up for (or doesn't accept that's what "dating" a married man is) a relationship that is only part-time and with a guy who is also verbally abusive (we've already established he is emotionally abusive). Being a good friend in this case might be asking her why she is…