as a professional dick sucker i have to say that many of my customers pretty much expect me to deep throat (which, duh, I have learned to do bc $) and they all seem to love the gag. I’ll play it up even...even if they don’t actually make me gag i’ll make gagging noises (not the entire time) and then look up at them…

sadly this is my actual worst fear. I use back page among other things. It gives me serious anxiety sometimes. On top of decriminalization, not stigmatizing folks for doing sex work is so huge. I know some women who would never admit to anyone that they work so they end up meeting up with a trick and they don’t have…

....i can sometimes pass for white (very light skin but my features give away that i’m Chicana) so i feel you when white folks run their mouths thinking you are “in” on their bs. BUT we don’t experience racism like our darker skin fam. It’s really important that we acknowledge that so we can be more effective in…

I’m always amazed/not surprised at how my tricks get to call anything they do “work.” Like they will pay me to come party with them on a “work trip” which is basically a lot of expensive food, drinking, cocaine, sex and maaaaaybe a 30 min phone call in the morning that is vaguely work related. and IT ALL COUNTS AS…

for real...i mean lets unpack “seedy” and “back water”...like what are you implying? bc that’s where i started and nothing wrong with it

actually, a seedy backwater strip club would be more like a g string and some old fishnets/bra and panty set from Rainbow...this is more like an upscale cabaret look. just saying.

excuses i've heard for trying to get away with not paying for a lap dance:

Oh lord here it goes: I was with a new customer (i'm an escort) and i was super hungry bc i hadn't eaten all day but i was already running late to the appointment so i didn't have time to cook a proper meal and just scarfed down as much black bean salsa (the fuck was i thinking?) as i can before running out the door.…

weird. i was invited to this party and ended up meeting the group after the strip club...bc i was working at a strip club myself and then left bc it was slow af. Btw, Ricks was sued too for the same reasons. I know bc i work there as a stripper. So no, going to Ricks won't actually make you a more ethical customer or…

ugh thats a really terrible reaction...please don't out sex workers. Sounds like this was a one time thing but generally DONT OUT SEX WORKERS. even if you think they "should know better" or think its a free for all since they've posted it online. If she didn't tell you herself, she didn't want you to know.

I was a cam girl for 2 years...its really not that intimate. Sure, we tailor our performance to what a customer wants to see (lots of feet, ass, saying his name, pretending to bake ourselves in the oven *true story* whatever) but we have fake personas, use fake names, fake voices, some of us have scripts, we don't…