Totally agree - my ‘recreational’ expenses vary a lot by month, so it was sort of useless to try splitting out a budget that way. After the “musts” (rent/savings/utilities/student loans/baseline food costs), it could be something different every month: a birthday dinner, train tickets to see my sister, clothes. I’m…

My husband has offered to get me a custom Yankees jersey that says “YEAH JEETS” on it. I want it so bad.

just came to say MATT SARACEN I LOVE YOU

YES.

My sister flew tower air to israel years ago and said a bunch of haredi dudes banned together and bullied the flight attendants into NOT SHOWING THE IN FLIGHT MOVIE. On a 12 hour flight.

Seriously, some of the homeowners are so oblivious. You bought an old, outdated house - why are you SO SHOCKED that the wiring needs to be redone???

I think the trick is that while there might not be anything fundamentally wrong with TRUE chill, most chill is just a facade, or a cover. It’s people keeping their options open instead of being honest with each other, or feigning disinterest so they don’t have to go out on any limbs, or don’t have to make any commit…

Thank you - I think it’s really important to keep all these points in mind. The hysteria that’s developed about campus rape really bothers me, for a variety of reasons.

yeah exactly - it’s not really an option for most people to just opt out of the market for looking presentable.

i’m going to regret engaging here, but whatever. I’m bored at work today.

The craziest part is that he went from not even understanding that periods were monthly to inventing this machine in just a few years.

omg some of these are just brutal.

Totally! I had that realization under the chuppah. No panic attack (phew!), just a little alarm going off in my brain that was like "HEY IDIOT THIS IS A SUPER HUGE DEAL"

Seconded. So, so hot. And I’m not even like an “omg his TALENT is so sexy” type of person. It’s just his sexy that is sexy.

I’ve been pretty lucky in my workplace - we have a lot of women in senior management and while there will *always* be something it’s really pretty egalitarian (gender-wise; we have other diversity issues).

City visitors: Please - PLEASE - be aware of where you are standing when in public places. If you need to stop to get oriented, do NOT do it: on street corners, in front of building entrances, right after you go through the turnstile for the subway, right after you exit the subway onto the platform. If you leave NYC…

THANK YOU. I’ve been so totally mystified that Jezebel dgaf about these tweets when they are usually ALL OVER this kind of thing.

For the barbers...$20? What kind of prices do these establishments charge? My husband's haircut costs $13 at a place in Queens....is the expectation really that he tips 100%?

Chiming in with some positive news: My workplace is actually pretty great in terms of sexism. I work for a huge, multinational apparel company and our CEO is a woman and multiple division and channel presidents are women. I’m in a quantitative/analytics role and have never once felt that someone was questioning my…

To everyone insisting that the first three questions quoted here are either “always rude” or “sometimes fine” and otherwise not about gender: you are willfully ignoring the context of the article. The author clearly included them because they were OBVIOUSLY motivated by gender bias when she heard them, not because she…