This experience is so foreign to me. I dropped out at 16, got a GED at 18, and attended a crappy community college full of middle-aged people until I had grades to get into a good University. By that time, I had so many bizarre things happen to me I had nothing in common with the kiddos at Uni.

I've never heard a trans person claim to be genetically male or female when they are not, though. Are there people who say this?

For a sec I thought this was a lame homophobic joke and then I kept reading and I peed everywhere laughing

There are people out there who say, "I feel uncomfortable as a man/woman. I have always felt more like (whatever gender). If I don't changed my outsides to match my insides, I just might kill myself."

Okay, so how the fuck can you sit there and tell ME that lesbianism is real but in the same breath laugh at me for believing in Santa?

I don't think gender is only a social construct though. You're acting like this is commonly accepted as fact.

I mean, the difference between religion and trans people is that there is no proof God exists. Trans people definitely exist. Whether you think it's a lifestyle choice or you think it's that some people are born with a brain opposite of their physical body, these people are here.

I banged my current partner without protection of any kind the first time we did it, so no judgies here. Did the other party know? How did you decide? Were you worried he could have some kind of underlying condition you didn't know of?

what really? Why???

One time my husband and I took crystal molley and I sucked his dick for 90 mins (not exaggerating). Apparently it was the thing best ever. Didn't do much for me (the drugs), probably because I had been tripping out every day a week prior to taking it.

I thought eating Cheetos while I smoke and shave my legs on my living room couch WAS good nudity!!!!!

What brand do you use?

hey man I schlep around topless constantly and nobody feels empowered. My neighbors actually seemed pretty disempowered when they told me to close my blinds. :(

Thank you for all the recommendations! I've been wanting to get something other than the typical Olay/Neutrogena stuff from CVS but I didn't want to grab something blindly.

Does that clog pores/feel super heavy? I knew a woman who used zinc because she had some kind of health issue that made her hyper sensitive to the sun and she said she had to cover it in make up because it goes on white.

you're pretty stuck on scout

I know several women who sun tan outdoors and still have vitamin D deficiencies.

I mean, people used to die at 45 lol. It's not really something we "can't do any longer". We're just aware of the risk now.

Well, you would be incorrect. Baking is not the best way to get adequate vitamin D.

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