Agreed that his dad doesn't have a reasonable expectation to be repaid. However, it is probably best for Rainbow's mental well being and sense of self, for him to work on repaying his dad.
That sucks, but you should've been like the Grinch
You’ve been letting her stay free, but have you considered that she has been costing you extra? - maybe not quite double on all your utilities, but I’d guess all your metered (not unlimited for a flat price) utilities are up by 1/3 or more due to having a roommate. So you might need to run your numbers and see how…
shes not paying rent?
1st. Your roommate is spoiled and you owe her nothing.
Yout don’t owe either of them anything. Your ‘roommate’ never paid rent and you have no obligation to house them. If they want to keep living there after you move out, let the landlord evict them. And if your dad is going to secretly “help” you, he has no reasonable expectation of repayment.
Soo she’s getting a free ride and is mad it’s over...
“She pays nothing”, not a roommate that’s someone you let stay in your place. I had a friend that I let stay with me for 3 months. After 2 months he got a job, I said nothing for a month so he could catch up. I asked him for $50 a week (apartment/utilities were $1000 a mo) he ran back to mom and dad. You’ve already…
She’s the selfish one, she’s living there for free so she doesn’t deserve anything. You have to stand up for yourself and you are giving her months of time to figure it out.
i hate to say this but her problems are her problems. you gotta take care of you. even if this was an equitable relationship (which it sounds like it's not at all) you owe her nothing.
I see no fault on your part, sounds like your roommate needs to learn to take responsibility for herself (just as you are doing by moving out of a place you can’t afford). 3 1/2 months is plenty of time to find somewhere to move; you are doing her only a favor by letting her stay for free.
Oh no. Her free ride is over.
No no no. Fuck all this. You are in no way incorrect. Now is the time for establishing boundaries with someone who is trying to take advantage of you. You've given a reasonable person plenty of time and charity. Anyone who is isn't anything but appreciative is unreasonable. Stick to facts from here. "I'm sorry you'll…
She has her own job, she can deal.
That’s not a roommate, it’s a parasite.
Her reaction is actually quite common among those living on other people’s charity. That speaks volumes about the human condition. Don’t do anything. She’ll either get over it, or she won’t. Frankly, there isn’t a damn thing you can do about it.
So, what’s the problem?
send her thoughts and prayers; they’re about as useless she seems to be
That looks like it’ll stop working within a month of installation. Car audio is one of those things you want to stick with established brand names for.
As others have suggested Crutchfield is the way to go for car stereos. Put in your car information and they will set you up with what head units fit, adapters so you don’t have to splice the wiring, steering wheel contol adapters if the Colorado even has those, and detailed instructions for your specific car.