we want security and adventure (hard to argue with from where im standing), and marriages were historically meant to provide the former—so reconciling them is difficult, because we are now looking for marriages to do both for us, and that hasn’t been the case in the past. you might disagree that it’s difficult to…

who are all these people that are saying “i must do it too” because of this show?

have you seen the show? like watched the whole season? it definitely is not about people cheating because sex was not enough. what makes it so nuanced and real is that there isnt a simple answer for why they do it. im sorry you had a horrible experience, but affairs can be about more than just sex. and while they are…

surely you dont have to assume that The Noble Renard was saying everyone everywhere should do exactly as they think, but instead proposing one way of thinking?

while you, alone, may not shit on people’s choices, the fact that it’s so hard to have a conversation about ti without people telling you to STFU is sorta that point and the problem

i actually think this article is right on about the fact that while technically monogamy is a choice—it’s really not critically examined or consumed. its the default norm, and we do very little in this society to allow for deeper thinking and consideration of what it means and why we do it. it’s just the thing to do,…

which to be fair is usually sooner then a kid leaves the house

is no other subject matter allowed to be filmed by anyone turkish? not a single american film until reparations!

it’s considered indecent—dont want a woman exciting inmates with her womanliness

my sister was visiting someone in san quentin and was told she couldnt enter with an underwire bra. she also couldn’t enter without any bra. so she had to go out to her car and rip out the underwire of her perfectly good bra before she could get in. she is a lawyer but wasnt representing this person. i think for…

smoke weed to unwind like normal teens!

Missy for class prez.

ew. and if the sex was consensual because of a specific arrangement, then one person lies and does not hold up their side of the agreement, it’s not consensual anymore. Also there is so much fucking power politics at play here—which is so much at the heart of sexual violence. you know the other person has little…

ya i get he might get to visit google, but to anyone who has ever experienced islamaphobia/racial profiling/or offended others with their brown skin, this is another reminder that you’re unwanted. for kids like Ahmed especially, the damage won’t be undone by Obama’s tweet

there can be a difference between noticing and even being attracted to another female, and not being distracted by that. the point is the argument is often that boys will be unable to carry on or wont be able to help their out of line behavior, which is different than seeing a girl and crushing. it’s the ability to…

thats what makes teens teens. its totally appropriate for them developmentally to think and act that way. that’s why as they grow up, they can learn and grow and think about how they share space with others and what accountability means. but for now, looking beyond themselves can be difficult. the dress code doesnt…

the thing is there are very few grown women who don’t know this. We have read the internet before. Reciting this line is so far from helpful, and only adds stress. you know what also doesn’t help getting pregnant? stress. if you’re genuinely concerned and want to be helpful, LISTEN to what people tell you about their…

Interesting how people who are able to easily conceive are not responsible for all the orphaned children of the world. they are totally off the hook because a baby slipped out, maybe even several. but anyone else should really do society a solid and take one for the team. I dont want kids and I think the future is a…

i doubt $100-200 will do much for a student loan debt.

woah dude. congrats on being 31 and so much better than everyone else. you are essentially blaming people who potentially within a year of the vaccine coming out didnt run and get it. people who like you said may have many reasons for not getting it, cost and insurance being one (again, congrats for having money to…