That is fair enough - I do not miss the days of walking down a hallway to use the bathroom.

People don't know how to wipe, or take care of their genitals in general. When I went for a post-partum checkup two years ago, the gynecologist (who was new to the practice) gave me a pamphlet that advised women not to shove soap up their vagina. I asked her if this was a common problem and she just shook her head and…

I like their PINK collection of cotton thongs that are like $3 a pop. Those things are awesome.

Do people sleep with underwear on, like when they are not on their periods?

Unless you're going to a school or working at a place that is equally racist, someone will care.

I wonder if future admissions counselors employers will chalk this photo up to 'kids having fun'.

Yeah the whole thing is a mess. I think it's probably racist, but definitely classist.

Well, if she's a hobo, she's living in her car and probably wearing the same outfit everyday, so it's probably both.

Thank you. I am so glad to hear I am not the only one!

Ugh, the books. I got a heavy dose of "Queen Bees and Wannabees", which, while some people love it, 14-year old me found insufferable and "Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul" which made me feel awful because those people had real problems like cancer and I just had anxiety.

I spent the greater part of my youth like this. I suffer from OCD. I had my first full blown panic attack at ten, and my parents and the counselor they appointed said I was being 'sensitive'. I kept it secret for most of my adolescence and when it did come out it was chalked up to hormones or just being high-strung.…

I have a story like that on the domestic side of things. My grandma babysat my big brother on Friday nights and Saturday mornings. She's a petite lady and was hanging curtains, which is a daunting task. She thought my brother was watching TV and not paying attention, until he turned around and said "grandma, did you…

We don't really get mad talking politics. If there is something that makes one of us furious we wait to talk about it (i.e. it took me a while to consider talking about the Hobby Lobby ruling). I think the reason we can do it with a sense of decorum is because we both participated in debate clubs. I did debate team in…

I'm glad it's working - I like to hear when things work for people. Also, I'm so sorry that people are jerks to you and your spouse. That's just not fair.

Yeah and I agree that talking about things and not fighting is normal and very healthy. The problem is when never fight is slang for "never communicate about anything other than the weather"

Yeah so I think that's totally normal.

See, that's what I consider healthy, though. I do give the side eye to people who never disagree about anything - it's just odd. If you put two people in a space together, eventually there will be something that they don't agree on.

Have you had disagreements though?

Okay, I think every relationship is going to have at least one fight. Usually when couples (at least that I've met) say that they don't fight, what they mean is there are never any disagreements, which tends to be majorly unhealthy. My friends parents never disagreed, so it came off as shocking to her when they…

That's what I was wondering. I don't want to be judgmental, but there is something odd about people who NEVER fight. It always seems like they are just expressing that pent-up aggression elsewhere (as this guy was doing)