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Believe it or not, I've been asked both on a regular basis. It's part of being a skinny female with two young kids - people think they're entitled to ask such questions. I usually err on the side of just not answering. No one needs to know how much sex I'm having or whether I had carbs or protein for breakfast. Then

See I believe there's a difference between sex and intimacy - and yes, if your marriage does not have intimacy, it is basically over.

Seriously, who brags about not having intimacy? Usually when people have marriages that lack in sex, they say things like "but we have deep emotional intimacy, we are close to each other" etc. Seriously, is she bragging that her marriage is a sham?

Sadly, some people with AIDS are still treated that way. I was in an AIDS awareness club in high school and we had a speaker come in who had AIDS and had got it in a very unfortunate way (he slept with a woman whose ex-husband was a heroin addict - since the disease was still GRID at the time, they didn't even bother

A-fucking-men. I am amazed how many racists think that they are just "telling it like it is" because they are not actively burning crosses and lynching people.

Yeah it is lazy. I find that "edgy" fashion and art campaigns are often lazy. You want to piss on a crucifix? Go ahead, but remember that it's 2014 and it has been done before.

Eh, I hate the Mocha look. It's meh on Rihanna and awful on most other women - and I can say that as someone who proudly wore black and purple lipstick in the '00s. Give me a classic red or a bold burgundy any day. I do like the packaging though.

Yeah I don't agree with her on that one at all.

I am so sorry. :( That is an awful experience.

Yeah I consulted my friend, who is a photographer and into edgy stuff (she thinks Terry Richardson is a dirtbag but was fine with the Martha Stewart shoot), about this guy's work. She got absolutely pissed about seeing this. In her words "there are just some topics that you shouldn't try to make fashionable - ever"

Oh fuck it. I'm into BDSM. I'm also the victim of a violent rape. The difference? I consent to the former with a partner I trust and love. The latter was a stranger who I did not want, who left me terrified and violated. There is a difference between "rape fantasy" or "rape play" with consenting partners and actual,

Also, let's not forget the fact that a six year old was raped as "retribution" for another rape. A fucking six year old.

It's how you get the boogers out of their teeny tiny noses.

Yeah, I am not a fan of Kanye, but I really do appreciate that he always looks happy in photos with North.

The only problem I have is that they serve alcohol. IMHO BDSM and alcohol do not mix well.

Yeah, honestly the doctor was surprised that I was able to get pregnant since the cysts were so bad at the time. He said that the low-dose of hormones created a "perfect storm" scenario that made it easy for the nice little zygote (who is now five years old) to make a home.

That's actually not true - the PP by me is huge on Depo for teenage girls. Their reasoning is that a lot of girls find the ring uncomfortable and most don't remember to take the pill every day at the same time.

A lot of guys complain about condoms. A whole lot. I'm lucky to have a husband that doesn't mind them when we need to use them (like when I was unable to take birth control, or when I was recovering from a uterine infection), but friends have told me about the non-stop bitching they have endured from partners

That sucks :( I was on Ovcon 35 back in the day, and my insurance provider wouldn't cover it. The only thing they would cover was Yaz (which made me suicidal) or OthroTriCyclen Lo. I tried the OrthoTriCyclen, but since it was such a lower dose of hormone compared to the old stuff, I ended up getting pregnant. Now they

Thank you!