Holy crap, a year? Either he’s asexual, or there’s zero sexual chemistry between the two. Run!

As far as brainy sex games go, I heartily endorse Strip Chess. Not with someone like this guy, he sounds selfish, unloving and unlovable.

My advice in four words: Break. Up. With. Him.

Sometimes I think advice columns are dumb, and that licensed therapists should be the ones answering them.

In the words of Dan Savage, DTMFA

All signs point to douche.

The guy has a side piece at work and is keeping you as a roomate. Find another guy who’s into you, this guy has checked out and is treating you like shit hoping you’ll leave.

find another

This guy is doing nothing but playing games, which could not be meaner to you and your self esteem. If someone is unable to have an honest discussion, they are not ready to be in a functional relationship. There are too many nice guys out there to waist your time with this jerk.

I am not a doctor either, but this sounds more like ED that he refuses to admit to and so, it’s just easier to blame the OP than take some kind of action. Either that, or he’s got a girl on the side. Not knowing how much the OP brings to the relationship, ie: big paychecks, better health insurance, party perks from…

It’s also possible he has a physical problem and is too embarrassed to admit it and blames her, so he might need to see a doctor. In any case, this guy seems like a total douche and she should drop him.

wait so like...with each other or in general?

I use to be pretty financially comfortable to the point that if I wanted something within reason I could easily get it. However in the last year, my life fell apart and now I work two jobs and am struggling again. I do have 1000 dollars and growing emergency fund BUT I am having the hardest time transitioning from my…

Exactly, that’s how I’m able to afford a new iPhone every month.

Hey Jez staff,

Who cares? Flights are horrible. People eat stinky food, they take up too much space. On more than one occasion the asinine banter of adults has been more annoying that children. Get over it. Flying sucks. Kids are kids.

Quick check: I have a Master’s degree in genetics, a second-place finish in the city spelling bee (6th grade division), I wrote a guide to NZ citizenship, and I can play “Just Can’t Get Enough” on my old Farfisa organ. Should I be able to breastfeed on a plane without getting kicked off?

cool the troll is here.