I sympathize. I had a roommate in university who got in a horrible bike accident. He was in a coma for a week and had a life changing TBI, and he would have had a broken arm and some cuts and bruises if he'd been wearing his stupid helmet.

I've been in a similar situation with an ex. It became this power struggle thing, where I thought if he loved me enough he would protect himself for my peace of mind. I think you are right in this situation, but I'm also single, so no suggestions on how to work through this and salvage the relationship (and you might…