The whole point is that it WOULD hurt other people. If he died, he'd have no further problems. Myself, his family and friends couldn't say the same.

My boyfriend of a year repeatedly refuses to wear a helmet while cycling, despite owning one. He knows that my friend's boyfriend died when he was hit by a car a year ago, and that she was suicidal for months afterwards. She had to move back in with her parents, and still lives with them, heavily medicated.