It’s difficult to tell what is performative, and what is real, but I’ve had a few partners who without any sort of prompting from me acted like they found cum super hot.   I suspect that like a lot of sexytime things everyone is different, but porn over-represents the subset of things that look interesting on film and…

*most* places, (but apparently not Texas) 2nd degree murder requires “malice aforethought”. Which isn’t quite the same as premeditation. IF one buys the story that she thought he was an intruder in her apartment, that would fail the “malice aforethought” requirement.

They think it makes the protagonist heroic if he still wants to have sex with a woman with imperfect tits.

I don’t know. She’s squarely in the ‘not my type, but if my buddy got involved, I’d be impressed’. I don’t consider her bad looking at all. Maybe by some celebrity standards, but that doesn’t seem to be what she wants to be.

I wonder if they think it’s cute, like the whole “women who don’t know they’re beautiful (until a man tells them)” trope that a lot of dudes seem to be into.

Depending on the degree of murder charge. A second or third degree murder charge just needs proof that she intended to shoot/kill, which she obviously did.

2nd degree murder, or simply murder in Texas, does not require premeditation.

Yuck, exactly. Also is the angle for that piece “but her vagina was clearly asking for it since it clamped tightly around my dick”?

small and sticky and amusing

50 Shades is terrible, what’s your point?

“Come hither, dear hubby, for I am about to boa-constrict that dick” is how celibacy starts.

I recently heard John Grisham saying his wife laughed uproariously at his sex-scene drafts, and for that reason, he never includes sex scenes in his novels. Sounds like a good call. These seem to have been written by horny middle-school boys who have never had sex. 

Here’s my thoughts. You have every right in this country to say what you want to say and believe what you want to believe. But, you cannot control how people will react to you. You can’t have the freedom to say what you want and then also a guarantee for people to agree with you or not argue with you. That’s not how…

i worked in a restaurant and a customer would come in and look at porn on his laptop. We alerted the owner and asked him to do something about it but he was one of those “the customer is always right” assholes and so we would give him the shittiest service possible. If he wanted a refill on his drink, we would just…

I used to work in a sbux and I can assure you, people (men) watching porn and then getting off because a (usually) young woman has to come tell you to knock it off is ABSOLUTELY a thing. Men are why we can’t have nice things.

Yep, Chicago too. I know because the library that I used to take my then-toddler to for story hour had the computers set up near the staircase. One day a man was sitting there PRINTING out images of hard core porn. So I immediately tell a librarian thinking she would storm over there and go all Sugarbaker on this guy.…

People watching porn in a library is pretty much Exhibit A for “this is why we can’t have nice things”.

I spend a fair amount of time in public libraries and I can’t even count how many people (it’s always been men) I’ve seen watching porn there.

As someone above suggested, there probably are guys doing it to sexually harass women working there (who cannot leave) and women who are just trying to have a cup of coffee/tea and read their book or do stuff on their computer. And the sort of guys who get their jollies doing shit like this probably would find a way…

You’d be surprised. I worked in a NYC public library and half my job was telling people to quit watching porn in the library.