Your ex being unable to order food using an app doesn’t mean that all men are like that. I’m a single father of 4 children and I think I manage pretty fucking well thank you.

Right. Dump on a guy who lost his wife, because your shitty ex doesn’t know how to use Postmates. That’s a fine projection.

Jesus Christ I knew jezzie commenters could be petty and judgemental but this takes it to a whole new level. This would be quick for me personally, but I also don’t know these people or their lives. If they’re both happy more power to them, I like all these arbitrary amounts of time where he should be mourning.…

Yeah, loving someone now is no more an end to the love he had for Michelle than having a second kid means that you can only love the first one half as much. Love isn’t a finite resource.

So no specifics, and a vague description which amounts to ‘I don’t like him for a petty reason, but I’ll dress it up in right on language to make it seem profound.’

Yeah totes me too! If I die young I fully expect my wife to live in a dark room only occasionally going out, veiled of course, in black. I want my children to never again know the feeling of having two loving parents.

Because I’m seeing it over here:

So you are really just here to state that his comedy is not your cup of tea.

Stay with that. The “None of your business” part. It’s the important one

You not liking his comedy does not make him a shitty person.

“Nope, too soon.”

Lots of people saying “no judgement” while judging their decision.

This does not mean that he has stopped mourning. He just made room for love that is in his life right now too.

Uh, Patton Oswalt is always going to mourn his wife. Falling in love with someone else and getting married doesn’t negate the love one has for their deceased spouse. His new wife doesn’t delete Michelle McNamara, and if she’s a half-decent person, she knows that. Mazel to him and Meredith and Alice, who seem very…

Like you said. It’s none of your business.

All the “too soon” people need to fuck right the fuck off. Not your life, not your grief, not your business.

Nope, too soon. It’s none of my business and I’m glad they’re all happy but all the hair stands on the back of my neck when this happens

Frankly, I cut him some slack. Yes, there is some straight guy appropriation going on here. But, he seems like a nice guy and sounds thoughtful if a little self-unaware.

LeBron James will never be as successful as Michael Jordan.

I grew up with a “We’re never going on another god damn Vacation Dad”