Doesn’t mean it isn’t worth doing. Racial integration was tough, too. The military has to reflect the values of the society it defends.

links? i can’t find it but this deserves more visibility. it’s not like these guys don’t give us lots of warning, if the authorities were actually willing to take online threats seriously from violent misogynist douchebags like this guy. there is a pattern here that needs to be identified and payed attention to (just…

I’m more interested in how a proper woman in Victorian times (think Jane Austen novels era) would use a “bathroom” at a guest’s house. Elizabeth and Jane are visiting the Bingleys for tea and cake. Jane feels a rumble, she has to shit and soon. The carriage ride back home is like 2 hours long on bumpy roads. What do?…

I think it’s irrelevant what his mental status is. Scores of people have mental illnesses and do not do this. Scores of people are violent against women in this same way and do not have a mental illness. And for a good number of people, this isn’t evidence of “batshit crazy”, but rather what these women deserved. See: …

Really? You seem dumb:

I think the big difference is the involvement of law enforcement, the leaked pictures of Rihanna’s beat-up face, and the fact that both parties admitted and have spoken openly about the incident. And, sadly, it seems people care a lot more because the victim in this case is a huge star.

“With his hands pulling the gun out and his elbow coming up, I knew it was a gun and it was coming out. I saw the weapon in his hands coming out of his waistband and the threat to my partner and myself was real and active,”

Cause men who shoot “fake” rape are actually into rape?

Why do you have to be so sex-negative? Why kink-shame people this way?

I’m pretty sure a significant portion of Kink’s fans are women. This one is, anyway.

As an aside, “perfectly unhelpful” is perfectly perfect. TY.

That’s the thing. Most porn customers are men. Men don’t care who the surrogate penis is attached to. The women are the stars.

No one knows exactly what causes kink, but it’s absurd to say that culture is totally irrelevant.

I’m sorry, I don’t agree with you. Unless you can back up your assertions with something more than your say-so.

And she had a great line of “I don’t judge individuals but let’s say I am suspicious of how many dudes have fantasies that align perfectly with existing patriarchal norms.”

Well, his public image prior to this was as the guy who was not a threat or disgustingly porn-y.

Of interest: The porn industry is quicker to drop someone over allegations of rape than the NFL or NCAA.

Safe money’s on a white guy.

I’m interested to know who was arrested, and if it was a white guy posing as a black guy.

What many people don’t know or realize is that Colorado Springs is ground zero for an organization called Abolish Human Abortion. The CS PP clinic has been a target of their’s for some time and they have protesters there six days a week, only forgoing the one day the clinic is closed. Reports are that they have had as…