Nah, man. Don’t defend this place. They fucked up, and they fucked up badly.

What a nice pandering gesture.

I posted this in another comment: When I’m feeling the groove, I love sex, I love my husband, I feel like we’ve come together into one organism and it’s fantastic. When I do it at times that I’m not feeling the groove, I end up staring at the ceiling, wondering why sex has to be so squishy, worrying about how I’m…

> it seems like an awful lot of “maybe this will work” combined with an awful lot of “this will probably harm you”.

When I’m feeling the groove, I love sex, I love my husband, I feel like we’ve come together into one organism and it’s fantastic. When I do it at times that I’m not feeling the groove, I end up staring at the ceiling, wondering why sex has to be so squishy, worrying about how I’m probably going to get a UTI, and…

I’m 30, I’ve been on and off birth control, on and off SSRIs for chronic depression, and I still haven’t found a way to become the woman I used to be when I was in my mid-20s and a sexual dynamo. I used to feel that tug in my gut when I saw an attractive person, to be able to completely abandon myself during sex with…

I’m like that. I love being sexual, but I can’t make it happen anymore, and it’s affecting my relationships as a result.

Right! You can tell that pharmaceutical companies are dying to find an effective way to capitalize off one of the most confusing biological processes.

That drive and desire are two different things, and that men and women are biologically different on how they experience both, and that culture itself screws up how we experience both. Responsive vs. spontaneous desire! Emily Nagoski writes a lot online, and there’s quite a bit about there about her book in case…

sounds like a bullshit drug to me with poor testing and even poorer results. Every woman with libido issues should read Come As You Are for some context and insight on sex drive vs. desire. That book taught me more about my dead bedroom than my doctor ever did.

Only women should legally be allowed to carry weapons. Men would cower.

Men kill women. Avoid them until they can prove otherwise, and if they hurt you, strike where it hurts them most.

Same. I’m a few years younger than you. I don’t give a fuck about looking attractive to or keeping company with men who have a bad attitude. I guess that’s why they hate us 23+ crones ;)

Yep, he’s one of my favorite comedians. RIP. Miss you, George.

It’s simple. Just be what a woman wants. If you’re not, then you can’t “have” her. And vice versa.

Still wouldn’t fuck either of them with a stolen dick. All it takes is a few drinks, the right level of entitled anger and men’s nasty sides come right back out.

Because saying anything would give them fifteen minutes of fame, after which they’d be both forgotten and without a paycheck.

You’re lucky you only have to deal with this before your wedding. Try having this attitude about the meat husk you use to get around starting at the age of 11. 20 years later it hasn’t improved, despite a decade of therapy.

Whoa, this was uncalled-for level mean.

This was fantastic! You go, woman.