yeah, that is kind of strange. But maybe she meant having a strong bond/being affectionate without being intimate...but yeah, it has some strange touch to it..

I would too for the reason that I would not want someone else put words in my mouth I’ve never said..

I love her. I love love love her. sigh

I know. But. Although it is always somehow about the status, I guess the trick is to find the people who care about the same criteria of what is important for someones status. Like in my eyes being smart/progressive/a good person raises the status of a person, and being surrounded by likeminded people does make this…

modern madonna is not that bad either. very sure she wouldn’t get the same amount of hate if she would do what she still does but would be decades younger..

I really feel with you, really, believe me.Keep your head up. Assholes are not worth giving up the joy in life. There are others.

Really sorry it bothers you I exit. :**((

Wow. How far can internalized racism and submission actually go.

I love you. Seriously its mind boggling to me how many people pretend cheating is just no big deal blabla. I’ve seen lives of people completely fucking ruined, everything they believed in, trusted in, just because someone thinks they dont have to take any responsibility when it comes to their fucking libido or when…

Interesting. So you women the women cheat as much? Kind of sad, but better than one sided I guess

I actually read one recently but it is in german. I think this speaks for your circle of friends. I have experienced groups of men bond over very sexist stories with regards to women...sexist jokes, rape jokes, what they did to women (already that language..) during their sexual “exploits”, or even the justifications…

yeah dude, I only read Cosmopolitan, I am a dumb woman, you know. And yeah, dude, our sexist society does not influence how we see relationships and fidelity, and surely the fact that even legally women were a mans possessions just decades ago and are still presented as disposable decoration everywhere has no impact.

Statistics which ask more precise questions. And, I dont know, but all theories start with subjective, personal experiences, and I don’t think they are irrelevant, sorry. And btw, I spend my entire day doing stats in my PhD, so go bragging and teaching somewhere else about statistics.

I dont know which one is worse, but I think it is more tolerated for men, hence the higher occurrence. I dont know. I feel women grow up way more having in mind, even subconsciously, that our goal is to find the guy of our lives, and commit, as opposed to men who grow up being pressured to sleep with as many women as…

I dont know. I think in my value system not tipping a waiter is slightly less worse than treating the closest people to me in such a way. But what do I know? And I personally would mind working with assholes..so

No, as I wrote to someone else, that is only true for statistics asking if people ever have cheated, not if you use more finegrained statistics. And dude, it seriously amazes me that people think that centuries of women having the role of a mens possession does not influence behavior when it comes to fidelity in any…

I think cheating is an asshole move, yes. And no, I don’t agree with the statistics you refer to - usually they go like that: “Have you ever cheated, yes/no” - and then you might have roughly the same percentage of men and women, but if you look at the more finegrained statistics which ask how many times, how many…

I said IF, ok? IF it is true that he is a cheater - did you missed that - read it up, it’s right there, and fuck no, fuck all assholes who think cheating is just a “chosing who to have sex with” and ignoring all the damage they do to others. ok?

Yeah but you know, it’s not the usual narrative, and I know many, dude, many real life examples which end with the guy getting pads on his shoulder or even the woman (the affair) being fired, and if anyone minds the guys behavior they are overreacting blablabla

if it’s true that an asshole cheating dude got fired because of his cheating, then I love Shonda Rhimes even more. It disgusts me that it is seen as totally acceptable for men to treat women as things they can exchange, use, betray carelessly