They see it as a question of their manhood. “How dare they harass MY woman?” Not how dare they harass a “human”. It’s sick.

My issue is killer sperm due to weird pervert stuff was done in an Anthology film called Chill-a-rama that is fairly recent. This wasn't good enough to make me forget that sketch. 

Literally the server is working for you in the time they are serving you. Reward them as you expect your boss to reward you for for your work.

You have logic and class something that seems in short supply in a lot of these responses. 

I would not consider anything under 30 seconds to make fancy but that’s after years of work in the industry.

You don’t really drink so you maybe need to rethink a ‘Pour is just a pour’. Even simple two to five step drinks can be screwed up and everything from underpouring to overpouring are issues. Speed, consistency and ability to entertain and suffer drunks are learned skills. I am not a bartender but I am a drinker and…

I heart you so hard right now...

Even though he won’t go down, it’s been noted he has “...wonderful toys!”

As a car person I hate how true this is. 

SAME!!!! Only Garbage is my all-time favorite. 

I blame the person who complains when I move instead of sitting up slightly. It's not difficult to recline a reasonable amount, or to think about how you are impacting others with your ability to do something. I can both reasonably think the airline can provide more space and realize some people would still make…

Yep...this if I have to grab someone or subdue them I did a shifty job that night. 

Nothing can protect you from asshole passengers. Literally hell is other people. I am incredibly laid back so I rarely escalate things but I have had to break up a fight on a plane, subdue a drunk on a plane, intervene in a racist rant on a plane and occasionally, hold the hand of a terrified co passenger to keep them…

I traveled enough to where I don’t recline. I was on the last row of first class so could not recline. A full recline literally puts you in someone’s lap in first class on that mid 90s refurbed 737 or 747. If you recline so far you can make eye contact and complain when the person in behind you moves their body you…

OMG. Seen a lot of crazy shit on flights that’s up there.

You are completely off about Superbad the hero was afraid to have sex with a drunken girl and she ends up insulting him for not just doing it. The other was too insecure to talk plainly to the girl he had a crush on and ends up accidently giving her a black eye. As a young queer man when that movie came the homophobia…

All of this. Struggling through this right now it’s beautiful, scary, painful and sobering to see how it is being queer and in love. It’s like the worst secret you will ever have to keep. Keeping that secret thought makes you feel closer to the people who you do trust and who know.

Sounds like you learned a lot about adulting that day...

Gay bars.

This. I have a lot of friends especially mid 20's to 30's who worked service jobs through the pandemic who simply believe they can’t risk having a day off to be sick if they get the vaccine. They hear stories of people getting a fever for a few days after the vaccine and worry if that happens they will lose their jobs…