Quit smoking, drink lots of water, stay active.

Thanks for being so thorough. You get used to seeing a certain mix of people in US and kind of forget that it isn’t the world state of affairs. Although, I did live in Corpus Christi, TX for six months and it took me a few weeks to figure out what was off. Many Hispanic people, almost no black people.

Saved. Amazing.

If you aren’t super used to it, and even if you are, it can really slow down reflexes etc.

Ahaha ha. Coked out drivers are not rare.

She’s amazing! I would actually love to see a show where she and Danai Guerra are an ass kicking team of.....private detectives? In space! They both do terrifying competence with a side of dangerous vulnerability that is hypnotizing. And we are right now finishing Luke Cage, so I’m thinking they get the soundtrack…

Can we get a remake of Maleficent with her in the lead role?

One of those shows is not like the others. Why *is* The Fall so white? I fucking love it, but surely there are POC in Ireland?

I love this fucking song. And I was a teen when it came out. I was baffled a decade later when the Katy Perry song came out because some DJ was talking about this new song, and I was in my car all “wut? That song is super old. Then it was not the right song!

I just finished a rewatch last week, and it said leaving April 1. But it’s Netflix. This may have changed already. But it’s serious business. When I’m sad or sick, I need to have Once More With Feeling.

I found it, oh a couple years ago, probably in another SNS post. It blew my freaking mind. And I was raised to be a feminist, by a feminist (2nd wave but still) who was also raised by a feminist. Because we don’t talk about it this EVER. I’m rereading it again. Even though I try to keep it in mind when I’m feeling…

If you want an overview just google ‘emotional labor where’s my cut.’ But the link (click it) goes to an organized version of what started as a thread on metafilter. Have you ever made a document in google docs? This is what the link looks like when you make it public.

Wow. Yeah that’s a person you need to keep at as much a distance as possible. Who does that at work? Lunatic narcs, that’s who. Yikes.

Omg I read this as “do things on your crotch” and was like, yeah but don’t think about him while you’re at it.

Excellent name! They are taking Buffy away from Netflix at the end of this month :(

Ahaha, the tipping thing makes me laugh. I think you will probably be fine. Road trips in the US can be really amazing, so have fun. Make sure you are up to speed on things like our traffic signs, if you get pulled over be ultra polite. Remember that legal weed is a state by state thing and DO NOT CROSS state lines…

Well number one, I don’t think this is a small fuck up. I’m concerned that you are taking most of blame on yourself for not having a safe word. The cat stuff is such a side issue compared to the sex stuff. While there are definitely dominant men who are great partners, there are many predatory assholes who use the dom…

Thanks but-

It can take a long time for a feral cat to be a good house pet. How long have you been seeing this guy?

Shit yes. Times a million.