Damn dog. You really won the done deaf as hell award. Dear White People, this ain't about you.

Kara is Black. Her picture is RIGHT THERE.

I'm not an R Kelly fan. Just curious why hickorydickoryduck is so sure that Conor Oberst's fanbase would have this entirely different response if the allegations about him are true.

No, I actually do need you to.

Very curious how you would know that R.Kelly's audience is super cool with rapists and that Conor Oberst's is all ardent RAINN supporters.

She actually didn't mean, "people over 40 use Facebook" - the strongest growth on Facebook is from people over 65 - and it's not remotely pearl clutching unless "This is fantastic" is a new code for that. Perhaps you should refrain from continuing to comment on a post having only read the headline.

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Believe me, you need to learn.

Now I'm doing exactly what I didn't want to do. I'm not your Racism 101 teacher. You seem eager to be willfully ignorant about this and I have no desire to argue in circles with you. Bye.

Did I ever say that all White people were evil?

Bottom line: if your main concern in discussions about racism is to make it super clear that "you aren't like that" then you aren't an ally for me.

Reverse racism just does not exist. I'm not saying that your experience isn't valid. Prejudice against a dominant racial group exists. However, racism is not simply prejudice against another race.

I kneejerk dismissed her comment of:

Regretting my knee jerk reaction to dismiss pugbug's response to me.

So top things I should remember as a WOC voicing frustration about racism:

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Reverse racism doesn't exist. Bye.

Of course, all White people aren't like that. Just like not all men are misogynists and not all White feminists ignore Black Feminism/Womanism. I don't claim to know what KaizyKat meant by their statement but what I assumed they were pointing out is that anytime there is a post like this, people feel the need to point…