I can highly recommend the work of Erika Lust, and especially Five Hot Stories for Her. The BF and I watch her work together and it is just the right mix of visually obvious (for him) and believable and affectionate-without-being-ridiculously-mushy (for me). You can purchase them digitally off her website,…

This. I honestly don't understand what is wrong with most of the "asshole" questions, with the possible exception of "what are you?". When you live in an area where most people are white, and you are not, you stand out. You look different. There is nothing wrong with the fact that that piques people's curiosity. It…

I am going to look like this when I get older. There can be no discussion about this.

I'm white, and since we always want what we don't have I will say that to this day I have to look around when a girl of color walks past me in the street with a full head of hair - that afro-look in the left-most picture, for example - and feel jealous. Man, that is just one of the most powerful, exuberant, awesome…