So tonight the husband and I watched the original Halloween with our tweens and his daughter from his first marriage. Fun family bonding, kids went to bed. And then we watched an SNL that recorded from 1992. Clinton election, lots of stupid Ross Perot jokes, and a rapey skit called The Continental. Was this funny? Did…

I recently read that it’s incredibly common for men to get into a new relationship faster than women do after the end of a long-term relationship. it doesn’t really mean that he is over you. It more likely means that he can’t be alone. 

We are in the UK and therefore spell favour correctly. Colour. Theatre. Offence. Defence. Odour.

this cat cheered me up, maybe it’ll do the same for you  :)

I JUST had a guy who I went on a single Tinder date with a week and a half ago look up my work address (I told him what part of the government I work for, nothing else), and use it to send me flowers for my birthday. To a secure facility. Where we are not allowed to accept personal mail. Which I neglected to mention…

Years and years ago my aunt who lives in Vermont decided to she wanted to set me up with her friend’s son, who lived in the same city I lived in. At the time i was super hung up on some other guy and told him as much. A year or two later he found me on okcupid, and asked me out. We went to some show in SF, it was ok,…

Dude told me the podcasts I listened to were too mainstream for him.

You can’t correct for behaviors if you’re continuing to lie about it and publicly slandering the victim. Supporting that is dismissing what her wife experienced.

The message of “As your parent, I want to protect you from so much, and cancer is absolutely on that list.”

Yeah you make a great point, unfortunately she has spent a lot of time over the summer attacking the only major left wing party in UK politics for things a tiny minority of members have said that are no worse than some of the stuff she has done (bitching about perceived antisemitism when she created a race of mean bank…

I’ll believe it when I see it others watch this trainwreck and report back.

Wooooooowwwww. Fuck. You.

Did you ever consider that maybe she is a “total train wreck” because of trauma she has suffered? She also is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by her father starting at age 6. Not sure if you know that. As a fellow CSA survivor (mine started at about age 4) I take issue with the fact that because someone has…

Its amazing how orange he is with all the shadiness that surrounds him.

I’ve got your advanced AI right here!

How could Kanye be bad for the brand of someone who got famous from a sex tape?

I wanted to scoff at this as hyperbolic, but I suppose the extent to which the US feels like prison has entirely to do with where one is on the privilege spectrum. For a trans woman and ex-con like Manning, it probably does feel a lot more like a prison than it does for someone like me.

I get so tired of people thinking “if it really happened some one would have reported “ I had an incident happen with a state trooper and reported it. The state took it very seriously and investigated the situation and fired him. During the investigation 20 police women came forward with similar statements. Not one had…

I’m with you on that. How many? How many will it take until there is no need for a sexual assault beat? A domestic violence column? The entire female experience revolves around blood. We bleed so we can get pregnant, we bleed when we give birth, some of us end up bleeding for our husbands and partners. The leading…

I work with rape victims. Last week a client came in to get assistance. She described the assault, paused at the end, and asked if I could be the one to share her story as needed because she just can’t do it again. She wept while she told me she couldn’t bear it. It felt like she was being assaulted all over again.