they’re not fine, didn’t you see the dry sandwiches?! won’t someone think of the children!!!

glad all those years were worth something ;)

Beck is polite and a good tipper, but takes his steak medium well

I MISS IT SO MUCH

yup. having been a server in nyc and other major cities, if you’re a famous person, we usually know what to expect before you’ve sat down.

these days there’s a ton ton ton of amazing artists on instagram- see if you can find anyone in your area whose style you like and drop them a line!

and you don’t have to be ❤ hugs, hope you’re hanging in.

that’s not shade she is directly insulting him.

probably the greatest compliment i have ever received was when a kind old man at the airport said i reminded him of a Klimt. like i am a trash person but good god did that make me sparkle for a moment.

yeah, i had a friend that was called for jury duty on the tsarnaev case and she was promptly cut once she revealed an unwavering opposition to federally sanctioned murder.

with regards to your first point (confronting the scary and being ok and loved after), i think that’s totally it and you described it pretty perfectly.

oh it’s okay, i’m comfortable talking about it (anonymously on the internet, lol). i think being in a situation where i had no control was traumatizing (duh) and having my consenting, loving partner that i trust participate in a similar scenario helped me sorta rewire how i felt about control with regards to sex.…

i think your last sentence hit the nail on the head. we’re all surviving the best way we can. hugs to you.

what about if i’m a woman, and a survivor of sexual violence myself? rape play with my consenting and caring partner has allowed me, in some fucky way, to recontextualize and process what has happened to me in the past. i don’t appreciate the statement that i’m fucked up and need help.

sadly this is not uncommon. i work at an animal shelter and we get a lot of bonus apartment animals. but definitely check out your local shelter, because if you would like to keep the kitty, we generally want to help you do that! so my shelter gives away food and helps set folks up with low cost vet care. good luck!

his voice is SO GRATING

last week someone told me i worked at a death camp.

just waving at you as a fellow shelter worker that is not no kill. we also use injection.

don’t smoke resin. this is not the time to be smoking resin (actually it really is, but hear me out)

thank you for the sweet reminders of home. I used to pee all over Harvard Square, but I don’t think I ever took a bird down in the process!