My thoughts exactly! Someone commented it comes from ‘stalker fan’ (and also the song, I think).

The ‘stalker fan’ thing explains a lot, I was really confused because there is no ‘t’ in super haha

After reading about all the creepy and painful birthing sensations and sounds above, how is it that the long fingernails freak me out the most?

Oh hellz yes, both my sister and I were cute as hell when we were born. Giant brown eyes and such. My mother always has to mention that when she sees other, less attractive babies. I never really believed it because I thought all babies look basically the same, until I discovered a picture of me as a newborn in the…

So you think that when they were making the guest list and saw Beyoncé’s rsvp, they were like “better call Becky with the good hair”?

Yes! For some inexplicable reason I watched The Wedding Ringer last night and it was awful and filled with literally all the shitty things.

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE SAM SOME DAMN BREAD?!

oh my, I believe we are bound to have a duel for this title

Just find a video of Destiny’s Child - Nasty Girl and have a listen ;)

Fair point. Hmmmm. But I think it’s very hard to talk about feminism in pop culture then... And I think it’s important to think critically about these kinds of things and have an open dialogue about it. I mean, I don’t know how to say I don’t believe in this artist’s authenticity and I don’t share the same (feminist)…

PSA:

I didn’t really read about it before, I just saw a lot of “articles” come by on FB about who this Becky might be and I found that very disappointing. The majority of people seemed to be shaming Becky’s, but I may not have been paying a lot of attention and missed the Jay-Z backlash. It may have been colored by what I…

That’s actually what I was trying to say in my response to SheeshTheseNames. When I reread it now I see that it’s not as clear, I did want to admit that it is unfair to reference songs like Nasty Girl. But I see Lemonade now, which I dislike for several reasons and which I personally don’t find empowering or…

I know what you’re saying, but the only reason I mentioned the Destiny’s Child stuff is that in the text it is said that she’s always had a pop feminism thing going, and I personally don’t believe that truly matters since it was really very poppy (and also very marketable at the time). And yes, you can make mistakes…

YESSSSS i’m already telepathically ordering them for you in the future! they are my parents traditional go-to appetizer for every even semi-serious celebration, so I can’t even imagine a true party without them

Too late to edit, but in my defense (for my little rant hehe): I only just watched Lemonade to day and this is the internet, so I couldn’t not say all this?

That’s true.²

Okay, so Als not doing proper research etc. is not acceptable, but at the same time tbh I don’t like Beyonce’s feminism and black people/women empowerment thing. It all seems to coincide with it being cool to be an activist for me too much and say what you want, but Destiny’s Child was post-feminist at it’s worst,…

I didn’t know? :/ Maybe I was too young to understand when it came out (and I’ve never bothered to find out later on), but it probably is cleverly written so you can both interpret it as what it apparently is about and as it being about telling a guy to fuck off, no?

Even better with a pecan on top! Also grilled dates wrapped in bacon...