Lol! They are stainless steel, I’m not wearing them near any kind of deep water. I bought them because they were on sale and I (a 21 year old struggling with my sexuality and my gender expression) wanted something ‘sexy.’ I can be a liiiiittle over the top when I struggle like this.

Fucking genius.

Aaand now I’m learning all the words to Diamonds. Hell yes pink satin pantsuit.

These shoes.

A-fucking-men. I can't believe I had to scroll down this far to find this point. Participation, NOT a good win record- is what imparts value into sports. Denying students the right to participate is segregation and I believe we reached a conclusion on that.

HA!

The more I’ve thought about this issue the more it strikes me as pertinent. I think that this focus on penetrative sex (and the ensuing interest towards contraction strength of the pelvic floor muscles) is... heteronormative? Male-gaze-adjacent? But definitely onerous.

That, oh dear internet human, is exactly what a Magic Wand is for. Literally zero part of that contraption is sexy, it's the equivalent of a jackhammer but for one's tender bits. Once you're done all you want is bed.

Exactly. And for me there’s an emotional component as well. Like, a huge thundering sweaty puddle isn’t always what I’m looking for, ya know?

Yeah. I don’t know what a person could do with data on another person’s use of this device, but also I don’t want to know. 🤷‍♀️ Humans can be terrible.

How does one “improve” an orgasm? This sounds like a game devised to amuse someone other than the orgasmee? (that’s not a work but IDGAF)

This is the only criticism of these shoes that I'll agree with.

All of you that don’t like this shoe are wrong. I am pro-espadrille (regardless of my foot’s preference for arch support), I like the horrific orange of them especially since I would likely wear an 11 or 12 in these things and I feel like *lean in* to the clown shoe aesthetic here. I like that the sole is too thick…

This year was hard, painful, lonely and heartbreaking, but it is almost over.

Heh. Once when I was a much younger Fanda I attempted to ‘caress his member’ only for the guy to stop me and say quietly “oh you’re one of those.” 🤣🤣🤣

‘Turgid member’

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Just imagine for a moment a world where BFP’s work on intersectional feminist theory was actively promoted by women’s studies programs globally. If she herself had been recognized and lauded as a forerunner for this generation’s civil rights leaders. Imagine this woman, writing weekly for large national platforms like…

Dang. I found a link to her writing but too late to edit my original post. 🙄

Same. I hadn’t heard that she left feminism (her piece on *F*eminism was apparently published during a really shit year for me and I missed it completely). It interesting that Soraya Roberts didn’t specify what BFP’s current situation is, tho probably that’s because she wants to get on with her life. I wonder if she’s…