My birthday is 0n December 7th. I love that date because the next day, December 8th is a national holiday so I get to go partying on my birthday every year.

To all that horror you should add being plus size. I cannot emphasize enough how shitty retailers treat you. The derrision, the hostility, the pity at best... It's enfuriating. That's why I had my mom make mine. She's not a professional, but it turned out quite good. Plus it's just a dress, not a career path. If it's…

Sames. My husband did cook today because he asked to do it. He's a pretty decent cook, but once I actually enjoy cooking, I get to cook most of the time. Now if only he did dishes with the same enthusiasm he cooks I'd be set for life.

Unethical? Highly fishy intimidation tactics?I'm not saying there's legal grounds to disbar, just that there ought to be.

No, that's not what happens, simply that the names of defendants and victims are only released after conviction, same with pertinent details. If you are incarcerated you are entitled to due process. Say you have a serial killer that was emprisoned. Media would only be allowed to say "A thirty year old man was…

A lotof countries do this. And the legal system fails to implode from it.

I come from a country where the secret of justice is a thing,so no names of victims or acused are ever released to the media by courts or law enforcement agencies, so this is especially shocking for me.

But you know about rape...you bring it onto yourself by being female. (Not diminishing male rape victims here, but women et blamed for rape too often).

Blaming the victim is defence strategy 101 for rape cases. Domestic violence too, now that I think about it.

Yeah, I'm not saying it's going to happen, but it should.

If I had an iota of competence with gifs you would have the one where the grumpy cat goes: GOOD. Couldn't happen to a nicer person.

That's just low. He should get his ass disbarred to see how he likes it. Scumbag.

This article is straight up mean, and unecessarily so. It's what,the fourth or fifth article this week to be reprehensible (the triggering article about wedding diets was the worst). Change is coming to Jezebel, and not in a good way.

No, I didn't either and I'm fat. And shameless.

Please, don't be upset, it's not worth it. Just do what this fat lady did: order a dress in your regular size, one you feel comfortable in and don't stress. The most important thing your wedding photos should show is how happy you are, not how skinny.

Me neither, I just chose a dress in my usual size (which is a plus btw) and proceded to lead life as usual. It was glorious.

Loved, loved, LOVED her sheer gown. This? This for me is just tacky and lazy design. I guess I just don't get fashion.

Oh yeah, we really don't want change. Because we as a gender got the vote and other rights by not doing anything, just staying home and doing cross-stich. Because that's exactly how change occurs.

You would hope someone relatively intelligent and well-meaning would be able to learn (and quickly) what offends others, why, and how to avoid offending said people. That is if that same someone isn't so caught in his own sense of entitlement he's incapable of a shread of empathy towards others.

If it's anything like spandex, which I wear sometimes, it's uncomfortable at best, painful maybe, but restrictive for sure.