My hubby is overweight like me, and to tell you the truth never felt that attracted to conventionally attractive guys. But nevermind, even overweight guys have the fat fear: anything but a fat girlfriend.

Oh yes, it is, for some people. I just found out a good friend of mine took back her mooch abuser boyfriend and it's just so depressing. She feels like at forty that's the best she'll get. I'm so angry I can't even.

The reason I didn't talk about weight was because it was not a dating site, rather a forum for art, culture and politics.(Never did the online dating scene) So it shouldn't matter if the chick talking about french indie films or Kant or foreign policies or whatever was fat or not. What happened was that loads of guys…

To her credit, she gave the guy major side-eye for that look. But I've had my share of friends like that. Not worth it.

Oh dear. I have sort of the same problem with hubbie's family, not that serious, though. While politically they mostly tend left (we're a buch of leftist pinkos here) they're all rabid bullfighting fans,which I am totally against, and some of their views and life choices just set my teeth on edge. After two years of…

Walk away. It won't be easy, but nothing positive will come your way while you're still hung up on your best friend (been there, done that, got the t-shirt to prove it). Tell him how you really feel if you feel the need for closure, but really, walk away. You're not losing everything, because what you have right now…

After a few years of not really talking about my weight in my profile, I decided to make it perfectly clear I was a fatty. It was just not worth it because of douches (none violent, though). I went with a friend of mine to meet a men she was talking online and still remember his absolutely horrified look when he…

Dinner was hours and hours ago, but I made veggie soup (cream of butternut squash, turnip and onion with spinach for texture), braised cod fillets with tomato sauce and sautéed cabbage as a side. That's the poor me, I'm on a low-cal, low-carb, low-sodium diet dinner.

I wore a knee length gown and went with flats, something very similar to this:

As a history buff, I concur.

Yes, it was her house. It was empty for years after she died. We remodeled it and moved ther when we got married. But she passed away long before we even started dating, so I had never met her.

Probably talking about the zodiac, today is, if memory serves, the first day of Scorpio. Of course with Madge we never really know.

So I'm currently pregnant and I have these very very vivid dreams, doctor says hormones. So one of these nights I dreamt I was wondering about my house and in come my husband, his mother and sister, and this little old lady. They all look a bit strange, younger (and thiner, which was what struck me). As I look around,…

Yeah, but you just called her "a nightmare of fat" which as we all know is short for child molester dater. Plus, you might want to up your apostrophe game, even I, who speak English as a second language know that you should have used you're in the begining of the sentence.

I really shouldn't feed you, but since feeding the hungry is an act of charity, here you go, hope you enjoy this smidgeon of attention for treating ahuman being like trash. Degrading and insulting a fat woman is SUCH a novel idea.

I'm not sure he would enjoy Portuguese soups as they largely consist of vegetables, no dairy, no protein. While I adore caldo verde I can just see him throwing vitriol at it.

That's because you don't have to deal with scorching hot summers, because when it's almost 50º C outside you're pretty damn grateful for a cold bowl of tomato deliciousness.

It's an abomination, but my pregnant self is drooling over it.

Well, I didn't find it hard, maybe because of the time we lived together. Her advice on teamwork is on point, though. If your SO and you are on the same page about the important stuff, things are easier, wether that's dealing with money, planning a big event or keeping track of stuff.

Malaria, polio, tuberculosis, plain simple malnutrition,measels... so many unglamorous diseases that are killing the poor to choose from...