My wife once told me that the way I talked about my mother and sisters was a big plus for me. I didn’t really notice I was doing it, but she said I always spoke about them like I admired and respected them, which I do. Any man who denigrates the women in their life should be put under serious scrutiny before a woman…

I think it depends on what your definition of “late” is. If someone is so picky about time that 10-15 minutes is a huge deal, and he’s unable to just settle down and read a damn newspaper for a second, then he and I are NOT meant to be together. Because I am perpetually 10-15 minutes late, always (and yesssss I’ve…

Or they could be ADHD. I’m chronically late, no matter what I do. Life just seems to HAPPEN when it’s time to go. I hate it. If I try to plan for it, something new shows up. It’s beyond aggravating. Not caring isn’t the issue... It’s caring too much, then feeling like a failure because “it happened again”...

My partner and I are married and we are consistently late to everything but at least we’re late together!

And your friends.

All this, plus: Listen to your inner voice. The one that whispers. Listen to your gut.