It’s very helpful when narcissists are so obvious. It can save you a lot of time and heartbreak!

Again, I agree 100%!

Yes, yes, yes! Also, if they say they’re lazy, they probably are!

Living together isn’t much of a test for marriage, IMO, as too many people have quite fixed expectations of a spouse versus someone that they just live with (whether they are aware of it or not). My ex didn’t believe in marriage, but I discovered (too late) that he had totally inflexible ideas of how a wife should…

100% agreed!

Most people responding here are misunderstanding what is usually meant by “red flags”, when talking about potential partners. They are not just normal personality traits. Most people are reasonably good at identifying personality traits that they dislike in other people without help from articles like this. Red flags,…

I would consider it a big red flag if someone treated me worse than usual in front of other people. It suggests that that is what they do to impress people, which doesn’t portend well for the future, if you actually settle down together.

They have to build a lifestyle that supports them, else they would be suicidal. At the very least it shows that they are self-aware!

Unfortunately, not being able to prioritize is part of ADHD. Everything is important, especially whatever you are doing now!

You should consider whether you may have ADD/ADHD. Unfortunately, chronic lateness is one of the symptoms as a result of the executive function deficits that are associated with it. I’ve battled this problem all my life (50 years), and have tried everything I can think of to overcome it, but have never been able to do…

Those things are just individual opinion, and can hardly be considered to be a reflection of what most people would consider “immature”. My parents and their friends played board games regularly, before TV became the major form of entertainment. The example you give sounds more like someone using the accusation of…

Most people with ADD/ADHD have a real problem with time, not because they don’t care, but because ADHD is primarily an executive function disorder and they experience time very differently from other people and therefore have a great deal of difficulty with time management. So, while this is one of the challenges one…