Yeah, you're right - going after Anna isn’t really cool, because, damn, does that poor girl have the deck stacked against her. (Can we get, like, a Navy Seal team to extract her and her kids from that marriage?)

I would, too. But Snooki isn’t criticizing Josh. She’s criticizing Anna, for doing exactly the same thing Snooki is doing (standing by her man after finding out he tried to cheat on her).

No one is forcing these people to commit to a monogamous relationship. They're grown ass adults who actually do have a choice in what actions they take. Plenty of people are very happy in monogamous relationships, and plenty of people who aren't decide not to be in one. No one is forcing anyone to cheat.

Man, is that where I am? I thought this was the post office. I’ve been waiting to mail this goddamn package for like... nine months! This place has TERRIBLE service.

Oh honey, no. We just think they’re dumb and we’re going to have a great, great Tuesday morning making jokes. Thanks for clickin’!

When did anal become the new “heavy petting over clothes”?

Okay, so his off handed comment about realizing he’s not monogamous, uh, I think there is something else going on here. If you get married and your spouse believes you are monogamous, but you don’t personally believe it and cheat you’re getting something out of it way beyond not being monogamous. Like, you want the…

My hypothetical, symbolic parallel is punching people. Sometimes, when you punch people, you don’t hurt them, because they participate in sports where punching is common and are used to it, or you punch them in a part of the body that’s been trained to take aggression, or they get off on it. But for the most part,…

A lot of these prude-baiters are willfully missing the point. You want to be non-monagamous and your spouse is down with it? Great. That’s not what’s at issue here. It’s making the decision for your spouse. It’s the deception.

He doesn’t connect because he doesn’t want to. That alone should be the biggest sign there is to stop investing in a relationship that is dead. If you feel like connecting with other people but not with the one you sleep next to every night, that is major issue. And yeah, he’s totally living a lie but so many people…

I spent all weekend with lively couples and their lovely children. I felt like an emotionally deficient misfit the whole time.

Maybe if he wasn’t fucking side pieces he’d be connecting more with his wife. Hard to connect when you’re living a lie.

Choosing to be in a non-monogamous relationship is one thing. His wife isn’t choosing that and is seemingly unaware that she is in that situation. That’s where he’s an asshole. Also: disease.

Yeah, the health thing always pisses me off. When I divorced I had to get all the tests for STDs because my ex had been screwing around with multiple partners. That was fun. And if he had ever gotten one of them knocked up I honestly think I would have killed him. It’s not just sex, it’s endangering someone else’s…

“I feel like that is the untold story of this data leak—how many people just aren’t getting a sexual connection they want. And rather than talk about how people could solve this problem, everyone is just moralizing.”

“But it’s also none of their business, and nobody has the right to judge all the people exposed by this leak.”

Sad for his wife.

“I considered divorce but there really wasn’t massive personal discord. I mean, we don’t connect anymore.”

If he had discussed this with his wife and she agreed that they aren’t on the same page sexually, but it wasn’t worth a divorce to be good co-parents, yay for them. However, he’s sneaking around and putting this time and effort into all this. He’s so into getting his needs met and not wanting to rock the marriage…